Openness doesn’t come from resisting our fears but rather from getting to know them well.
PEMA CHODRONWhen we are willing to stay even a moment with uncomfortable energy, we gradually learn not to fear it.
More Pema Chodron Quotes
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Use what seems like poison as medicine. Use your personal suffering as the path to compassion for all beings.
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When we resist change, it’s called suffering. But when we can completely let go and not struggle against it, when we can embrace the groundlessness of our situation and relax into it’s dynamic quality, that’s called enlightenment.
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All the wars, all the hatred, all the ignorance in the world come out of being so invested in our opinions.
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Feel the feelings and drop the story.
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If we learn to open our hearts, anyone, including the people who drive us crazy, can be our teacher.
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Treat yourself as your own beloved child.
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Each person’s life is like a mandala – a vast, limitless circle. We stand in the center of our own circle, and everything we see, hear and think forms the mandala of our life … everything that shows up in your mandala is a vehicle for your awakening.
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Nothing ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know. Even if we run a hundred miles an hour to the other side of the continent, we find the very same problem awaiting us when we arrive.
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So many of us start along the spiritual path because we are suffering. But you must realize that for real healing to occur, there must first be deep compassion for yourself, especially the parts of yourself you dislike or consider ugly.
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Anything we experience, no matter how challenging, can become an open pathway to awakening.
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By the way that we think and by the way that we believe in things, in that way our world is created.
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Meditation isn’t really about getting rid of thoughts, it’s about changing the pattern of grasping on to things, which in our everyday experience is our thoughts.
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The best spiritual instruction is when you wake up in the morning and say, ‘I wonder what’s going to happen today.’ And then carry that kind of curiosity through your life.
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I can’t overestimate the importance of accepting ourselves exactly as we are right now, not as we wish we were or think we ought to be.
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If you follow your heart, you’re going to find that it is often extremely inconvenient.
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