It isn’t the things that are happening to us that cause us to suffer, it’s what we say to ourselves about the things that are happening. The truth you believe and cling to makes you unavailable to hear anything new.
PEMA CHODRONIn meditation, you learn how to get out of your own way long enough for there to be room for your wisdom to manifest.
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To be fully alive, fully human, and completely awake is to be continually thrown out of the nest. To live fully is to be always in no-man’s-land, to experience each moment as completely new and fresh. To live is to be willing to die over and over again.
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Every moment is unique, unknown, completely fresh.
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Meditation isn’t really about getting rid of thoughts, it’s about changing the pattern of grasping on to things, which in our everyday experience is our thoughts.
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Let your curiosity be greater than your fear.
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It isn’t what happens to us that causes us to suffer; it’s what we say to ourselves about what happens.
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When we are willing to stay even a moment with uncomfortable energy, we gradually learn not to fear it.
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We have a choice. We can spend our whole life suffering because we can’t relax with how things really are, or we can relax and embrace the open-endedness of the human situation, which is fresh, unfixated, unbiased.
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The second noble truth says that this resistance is the mechanism of what we call ego, that resisting life causes suffering.
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Usually we think that brave people have no fear. The truth is that they are intimate with fear.
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Things falling apart is a kind of testing and also a kind of healing.
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Treat yourself as your own beloved child.
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The greatest obstacle to connecting with our joy is resentment.
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If we learn to open our hearts, anyone, including the people who drive us crazy, can be our teacher.
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Whatever happens in your life, joyful or painful, do not be swept away by reactivity. Be patient with yourself and don’t lose your sense of perspective.
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I can’t overestimate the importance of accepting ourselves exactly as we are right now, not as we wish we were or think we ought to be.
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