We work on ourselves in order to help others, but also we help others in order to work on ourselves.
PEMA CHODRONAll situations teach you, and often it’s the tough ones that teach you best.
More Pema Chodron Quotes
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Use what seems like poison as medicine. Use your personal suffering as the path to compassion for all beings.
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Sticking with that uncertainty, getting the knack of relaxing in the midst of chaos, learning not to panic-this is the spiritual path.
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The truth you believe and cling to makes you unavailable to hear anything new.
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Every moment is unique, unknown, completely fresh.
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Nothing ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know. Even if we run a hundred miles an hour to the other side of the continent, we find the very same problem awaiting us when we arrive.
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Nothing ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know.
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Things falling apart is a kind of testing and also a kind of healing.
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If we learn to open our hearts, anyone, including the people who drive us crazy, can be our teacher.
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Let difficulty transform you. And it will. In my experience, we just need help in learning how not to run away.
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Feel the feelings and drop the story.
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All the wars, all the hatred, all the ignorance in the world come out of being so invested in our opinions.
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The second noble truth says that this resistance is the mechanism of what we call ego, that resisting life causes suffering.
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So many of us start along the spiritual path because we are suffering. But you must realize that for real healing to occur, there must first be deep compassion for yourself, especially the parts of yourself you dislike or consider ugly.
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Feelings like disappointment, embarrassment, irritation, resentment, anger, jealousy, and fear, instead of being bad news, are actually very clear moments that teach us where it is that we’re holding back.
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Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions.
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