One of the deepest habitual patterns that we have is to feel that now is not enough.
PEMA CHODRONAll situations teach you, and often it’s the tough ones that teach you best.
More Pema Chodron Quotes
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Let difficulty transform you. And it will. In my experience, we just need help in learning how not to run away.
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If someone comes along and shoots an arrow into your heart, it’s fruitless to stand there and yell at the person. It would be much better to turn your attention to the fact that there’s an arrow in your heart.
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The best spiritual instruction is when you wake up in the morning and say, ‘I wonder what’s going to happen today.’ And then carry that kind of curiosity through your life.
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Sticking with that uncertainty, getting the knack of relaxing in the midst of chaos, learning not to panic-this is the spiritual path.
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Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions.
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Resisting what is happening is a major cause of suffering.
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We can let the circumstances of our lives harden us so that we become increasingly resentful and afraid, or we can let them soften us and make us kinder and more open to what scares us. We always have this choice.
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Being satisfied with what we already have is a magical golden key to being alive in a full, unrestricted, and inspired way.
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Rejoicing in ordinary things is not sentimental or trite. It actually takes guts. Each time we drop our complaints and allow everyday good fortune to inspire us, we enter the warrior’s world.
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When we are willing to stay even a moment with uncomfortable energy, we gradually learn not to fear it.
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In meditation, you learn how to get out of your own way long enough for there to be room for your wisdom to manifest.
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Things falling apart is a kind of testing and also a kind of healing.
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The truth you believe and cling to makes you unavailable to hear anything new.
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We work on ourselves in order to help others, but also we help others in order to work on ourselves.
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When things fall apart in your life, you feel as if your whole world is crumbling. But actually it’s your fixed identity that’s crumbling. And as Chögyam Trungpa used to tell us, that’s cause for celebration.
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