The central question of a warrior’s training is not how we avoid uncertainty and fear but how we relate to discomfort.
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The second noble truth says that this resistance is the mechanism of what we call ego, that resisting life causes suffering.
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When we resist change, it’s called suffering. But when we can completely let go and not struggle against it, when we can embrace the groundlessness of our situation and relax into it’s dynamic quality, that’s called enlightenment.
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So war and peace start in the human heart. Whether that heart is open or whether that heart closes has global implications.
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Deep down in the human spirit, there is a reservoir of courage. It is always available, always waiting to be discovered.
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Don’t worry about achieving. Don’t worry about perfection. Just be there each moment as best you can.
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Be kinder to yourself. And then let your kindness flood the world.
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Use what seems like poison as medicine. Use your personal suffering as the path to compassion for all beings.
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So many of us start along the spiritual path because we are suffering. But you must realize that for real healing to occur, there must first be deep compassion for yourself, especially the parts of yourself you dislike or consider ugly.
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As our kindness for ourselves grows, so does our kindness for other people.
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I can’t overestimate the importance of accepting ourselves exactly as we are right now, not as we wish we were or think we ought to be.
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One of the deepest habitual patterns that we have is to feel that now is not enough.
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The essence of generosity is letting go. Pain is always a sign that we are holding on to something – usually ourselves.
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Things falling apart is a kind of testing and also a kind of healing.
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It isn’t what happens to us that causes us to suffer; it’s what we say to ourselves about what happens.
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Obstacles are our friends: they teach us where we’re stuck.
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