Treat yourself as your own beloved child.
PEMA CHODRONSo many of us start along the spiritual path because we are suffering. But you must realize that for real healing to occur, there must first be deep compassion for yourself, especially the parts of yourself you dislike or consider ugly.
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Nothing ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know.
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So war and peace start in the human heart. Whether that heart is open or whether that heart closes has global implications.
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When things fall apart in your life, you feel as if your whole world is crumbling. But actually it’s your fixed identity that’s crumbling. And as Chögyam Trungpa used to tell us, that’s cause for celebration.
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As our kindness for ourselves grows, so does our kindness for other people.
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By the way that we think and by the way that we believe in things, in that way our world is created.
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So many of us start along the spiritual path because we are suffering. But you must realize that for real healing to occur, there must first be deep compassion for yourself, especially the parts of yourself you dislike or consider ugly.
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The essence of generosity is letting go. Pain is always a sign that we are holding on to something – usually ourselves.
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One of the deepest habitual patterns that we have is to feel that now is not enough.
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Only to the extent that we expose ourselves over and over to annihilation can that which is indestructible in us be found.
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All situations teach you, and often it’s the tough ones that teach you best.
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The best spiritual instruction is when you wake up in the morning and say, ‘I wonder what’s going to happen today.’ And then carry that kind of curiosity through your life.
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Feel the feelings and drop the story.
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Since death is certain and the time of death is uncertain, what is the most important thing?
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The greatest obstacle to connecting with our joy is resentment.
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Feelings like disappointment, embarrassment, irritation, resentment, anger, jealousy, and fear, instead of being bad news, are actually very clear moments that teach us where it is that we’re holding back.
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