Nothing ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know.
PEMA CHODRONI can’t overestimate the importance of accepting ourselves exactly as we are right now, not as we wish we were or think we ought to be.
More Pema Chodron Quotes
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The truth you believe and cling to makes you unavailable to hear anything new.
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When we resist change, it’s called suffering. But when we can completely let go and not struggle against it, when we can embrace the groundlessness of our situation and relax into it’s dynamic quality, that’s called enlightenment.
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We work on ourselves in order to help others, but also we help others in order to work on ourselves.
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Nothing ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know. Even if we run a hundred miles an hour to the other side of the continent, we find the very same problem awaiting us when we arrive.
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Feel the feelings and drop the story.
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We have a choice. We can spend our whole life suffering because we can’t relax with how things really are, or we can relax and embrace the open-endedness of the human situation, which is fresh, unfixated, unbiased.
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Never give up on yourself. Then you will never give up on others.
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Don’t worry about achieving. Don’t worry about perfection. Just be there each moment as best you can.
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Be kinder to yourself. And then let your kindness flood the world.
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Meditation isn’t really about getting rid of thoughts, it’s about changing the pattern of grasping on to things, which in our everyday experience is our thoughts.
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To be fully alive, fully human, and completely awake is to be continually thrown out of the nest. To live fully is to be always in no-man’s-land, to experience each moment as completely new and fresh. To live is to be willing to die over and over again.
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Feeling irritated, restless, afraid, and hopeless is a reminder to listen more carefully.
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Deep down in the human spirit, there is a reservoir of courage. It is always available, always waiting to be discovered.
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Usually we think that brave people have no fear. The truth is that they are intimate with fear.
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The second noble truth says that this resistance is the mechanism of what we call ego, that resisting life causes suffering.
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