To let go does not mean to get rid of. To let go means to let be. When we let be with compassion, things come and go on their own.
JACK KORNFIELDWhen we struggle to change ourselves we, in fact, only continue the patterns of self-judgement and aggression. We keep the war against ourselves alive.
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When we have for so long been judged by everyone we meet, just to look into the eyes of another who does not judge us can be extraordinarily healing.
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Nobody knows why they were born or where they come from.
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No matter how difficult the past, you can always begin again today.
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The waves do keep coming, so learn to surf.
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The way I treat my body is not disconnected from the way I treat my family or the commitment I have to peace on our earth.
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In the end, forgiveness simply means never putting another person out of our heart.
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Anger shows us precisely where we are stuck, where our limits are, where we cling to beliefs and fears.
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Equanimity arises when we accept the way things are.
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Letting go does not mean not caring about things. It means caring about them in a flexible and wise way.
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Train your mind the same way you’d train a puppy: Be patient, be consistent, and have some fun along the way.
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Ours is a society of denial that conditions us to protect ourselves from any direct difficulty and discomfort. We expend enormous energy denying our insecurity, fighting pain, death and loss and hiding from the basic truths of the natural world and of our own nature.
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Everything has a beginning and an ending. Make peace with that and all will be well…In life we cannot avoid change, we cannot avoid loss. Freedom and happiness are found in the flexibility and ease with which we move through change.
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Buddhists were actually the first cognitive-behavioral therapists.
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The goal of practice is always to keep our beginner’s mind.
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We can always begin again.
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When we get too caught up in the busyness of the world, we lose connection with one another – and ourselves.
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The waves do keep coming, so learn to surf.
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Most of us have spent our lives caught up in plans, expectations, ambitions for the future; in regrets, guilt or shame about the past. To come into the present is to stop the war.
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Most people discover that when hate is gone, they will be forced to deal with their own pain.
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We do not have to improve ourselves; we just have to let go of what blocks our heart.
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Have respect for yourself, and patience and compassion. With these, you can handle anything.
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Love is based on our capacity to trust in a reality beyond fear, to trust a timeless truth bigger than all our difficulties.
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The things that matter most in our lives are not fantastic or grand. They are the moments when we touch one another.
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Have respect for yourself, and patience and compassion. With these, you can handle anything.
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To begin to meditate is to look into our lives with interest in kindness and discover how to be wakeful and free.
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Life without forgiveness is unbearable.
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