Specialness as a primary mode of death transcendence takes a number of other maladaptive forms.
IRVIN D. YALOMMature love is loving, not being loved.
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Look out the other’s window. Try to see the world as your patient sees it.
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Marriage and its entourage of possession and jealousy enslave the spirit.
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Living safely is dangerous.
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Despite the staunchest, most venerable defenses, we can never completely subdue death anxiety: it is always there, lurking in some hidden ravine of the mind.
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When we have forgotten ourselves and become absorbed in someone (or something) outside ourselves
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Pandora’s box, but to re-enter life in a richer, more compassionate manner.
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Does a being who requires meaning find meaning in a universe that has no meaning?
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A free man who lives among the ignorant strives as far as he can to avoid their favors. A free man acts honestly, not deceptively.
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I think we ripple on into others, just like a stone puts its ripples into a brook. That, for me, too, is a source of comfort. It kind of, in a sense, negates the sense of total oblivion.
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Some day soon, perhaps in forty years, there will be no one alive who has ever known me. That’s when I will be truly dead – when I exist in no one’s memory.
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You will search the world over and not find a nonsuperstitious community. As long as there is ignorance, there will be adherence to superstition. Dispelling ignorance is the only solution. That is why I teach.
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In a study we did of bereavement, we found that rather impressive numbers of widows and widowers had not simply gone back to their pre-loss functioning, but grown.
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To the best of my knowledge, every acute inpatient ward offers some inpatient group therapy experience.
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Rather, love is a way of being, a “giving to,” not a ‘falling for”; a mode of relating at large, not an act limited to a single person.
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Life is a miserable thing. I have decided to spend my life thinking about it.
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