Pandora’s box, but to re-enter life in a richer, more compassionate manner.
IRVIN D. YALOMTherapists need to have a long experience in personal therapy to see what it’s like to be on the other side of the couch and see what they find helpful or not helpful. And if possible, get into therapy at different stages of their life with different kinds of therapists just to sample a bit.
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Psychiatry is a strange field because, unlike any other field of medicine, you never really finish.
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My hunch is yes. It would certainly do something for those who are most ruthless, who tend to make others most miserable.
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I feel strongly, because a man who will himself die one day in the not to distant future and, also, as a psychiatrist who spent decades dealing with death anxiety, that confronting death allows us, not to open some noisome.
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None of my patients are really troubled by the idea that some part of what they say might be in a book in the future.
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If you want to choose the pleasure of growth, prepare yourself for some pain.
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One doesn’t do existential therapy as a freestanding separate theory; rather it informs your approach to such issues as death, which many therapists tend to shy away from.
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Living safely is dangerous.
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Perhaps the single most important therapeutic credo that I have is that the unexamined life is not worth living.
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If we climb high enough, we will reach a height from which tragedy ceases to look tragic.
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Psychotherapy is a cyclical process from isolation into relationship. It is cyclical because the patient, in terror of existential isolation, relates deeply and meaningfully to the therapist and then, strengthened by this encounter, is led back again to a confrontation with existential isolation.
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Death, however, does itch. It itches all the time. It is always with us, scratching at some inner door.
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Mirroring, softly, barely audibly, just under the membrane of consciousness.
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You know, I think everybody I’ve seen has come from some other therapy, and almost invariably it’s very much the same thing: the therapist is too disinterested, a little too aloof, a little too inactive. They’re not really interested in the person, he doesn’t relate to the person.
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Self-awareness is a supreme gift, a treasure as precious as life.
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He had learned long ago that, in general, the easier it was for anxious patients to reach him, the less likely they were to call. (107)
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