In a study we did of bereavement, we found that rather impressive numbers of widows and widowers had not simply gone back to their pre-loss functioning, but grown.
IRVIN D. YALOMThe spirit of a man is constructed out of his choices.
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I never want to take away something when I don’t have anything better to offer him in a way.
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I think my quarry is illusion. I war against magic. I believe that, though illusion often cheers and comforts, it ultimately and invariably weakens and constricts the spirit.
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Mature love is loving, not being loved.
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… sooner or later she had to give up the hope for a better past.
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Heidegger makes the distinction between being absorbed in the way things are in the world and being aware that things are in the world.
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There is some evidence, for example, that those who enter the death-related professions (soldiers, doctors, priests, and morticians) may in part be motivated by a need to obtain control over death anxiety.
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Life is a spark between two identical voids, the darkness before birth and the one after death.
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Not to take possession of your life plan is to let your existence be an accident.
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It is wrong to bear children out of need, wrong to use a child to alleviate loneliness, wrong to provide purpose in life by reproducing another copy of oneself. It is wrong also to seek immortality by spewing one’s germ into the future as though sperm contains your consciousness!
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Live your life to the fullest; and then, and only then, die. Don’t leave any unlived life behind.
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A sense of life meaning ensues but cannot be deliberately pursued: life meaning is always a derivative phenomenon that materializes when we have transcended ourselves.
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Does a being who requires meaning find meaning in a universe that has no meaning?
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Some have expressed the very opposite feeling–the fear that they would not be interesting enough to write about.
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The more you fail to experience your life fully, the more you will fear death.
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As we reach the crest of life and look at the path before us, we apprehend that the path no longer ascends but slopes downward toward decline and diminishment. From that point on, concerns about death are never far from mind.
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