… sooner or later she had to give up the hope for a better past.
IRVIN D. YALOMIf we climb high enough, we will reach a height from which tragedy ceases to look tragic.
More Irvin D. Yalom Quotes
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Perhaps the single most important therapeutic credo that I have is that the unexamined life is not worth living.
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Some day soon, perhaps in forty years, there will be no one alive who has ever known me. That’s when I will be truly dead – when I exist in no one’s memory.
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The therapist can make the group feel safer by allowing each patient to set his or her limits and by emphasizing the patient’s control over every interaction.
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We take pleasure not only in the growth of our patient but also in the ripple effect—the salutary influence our patients have upon those whom they touch in life.
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And if you do the latter, you’re not so worried about the everyday trivialities of life, for example, petty concerns about secrecy or privacy.
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I feel strongly, because a man who will himself die one day in the not to distant future and, also, as a psychiatrist who spent decades dealing with death anxiety, that confronting death allows us, not to open some noisome.
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When we have forgotten ourselves and become absorbed in someone (or something) outside ourselves
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There was a time in our lives when we were so close that nothing seemed to obstruct our friendship and brotherhood, and only a small footbridge separated us.
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Life is a spark between two identical voids, the darkness before birth and the one after death.
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Death, however, does itch. It itches all the time. It is always with us, scratching at some inner door.
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Only free man are genuinely useful to one another and can form true friendships. And it’s absolutely permissible, by the highest right of Nature, for everyone to employ clear reason to determine how to live in a way that will allow him to flourish.
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Some have expressed the very opposite feeling–the fear that they would not be interesting enough to write about.
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Not to take possession of your life plan is to let your existence be an accident.
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A focus on this deep dissatisfaction is often the starting point in overcoming death anxiety.
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Every person must choose how much truth he can stand.
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