If I’m among men who don’t agree at all with my nature, I will hardly be able to accommodate myself to them without greatly changing myself.
IRVIN D. YALOMIf we climb high enough, we will reach a height from which tragedy ceases to look tragic.
More Irvin D. Yalom Quotes
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Mature love is loving, not being loved.
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Some piece of ourselves, not necessarily our consciousness, but some piece of ourselves gets passed on and on and on.
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The path to decision may be hard because it leads into the territory of both finiteness and groundlessness—domains soaked in anxiety.
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If one is to learn to live with the dead, one must first learn to live with the living!
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None of my patients are really troubled by the idea that some part of what they say might be in a book in the future.
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The creative members of an orthodoxy, any orthodoxy, ultimately outgrow their disciplines.
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The act of revealing oneself fully to another and still being accepted may be the major vehicle of therapeutic help.
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Look out the other’s window. Try to see the world as your patient sees it.
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It is wrong to bear children out of need, wrong to use a child to alleviate loneliness, wrong to provide purpose in life by reproducing another copy of oneself. It is wrong also to seek immortality by spewing one’s germ into the future as though sperm contains your consciousness!
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Perhaps the single most important therapeutic credo that I have is that the unexamined life is not worth living.
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Despair is the price one pays for self-awareness. Look deeply into life, and you’ll always find despair.
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Religion has everything on its side: revelation, prophecies, government protection, the highest dignity and eminence. . . and more than this, the invaluable prerogative of being allowed to imprint its doctrines on the mind at a tender age of childhood, whereby they become almost innate ideas.
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We take pleasure not only in the growth of our patient but also in the ripple effect—the salutary influence our patients have upon those whom they touch in life.
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There is some evidence, for example, that those who enter the death-related professions (soldiers, doctors, priests, and morticians) may in part be motivated by a need to obtain control over death anxiety.
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Not to take possession of your life plan is to let your existence be an accident.
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