This was due to a kind of increased existential awareness that resulted from this confrontation with the death of another. And I think it brought them in touch with their own death, so they began to experience a kind of preciousness to life that comes with an experience of its transiency.
IRVIN D. YALOMIf we climb high enough, we will reach a height from which tragedy ceases to look tragic.
More Irvin D. Yalom Quotes
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Life is a spark between two identical voids, the darkness before birth and the one after death.
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To care of another individual means to know and to experience the other as fully as possible.
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My hunch is yes. It would certainly do something for those who are most ruthless, who tend to make others most miserable.
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Your greatest instrument is you, yourself, and the work of self-understanding is endless. I’m still learning.
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Some sort of greater awareness of their own finiteness and what their time on earth really is, and what they really want to do with their lives, could help improve them.
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When that person dies, the whole cluster dies,too, vanishes from the living memory. I wonder who that person will be for me. Whose death will make me truly dead?
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I never want to take away something when I don’t have anything better to offer him in a way.
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The pain is there; when you close one door on it, it knocks to come in somewhere else.
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One reason patients are reluctant to work in a therapy group is they fear that things will go too far, that the powerful therapist or the collective group might coerce them to lose control–to say or think or feel things that will be catastrophic.
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Some day soon, perhaps in forty years, there will be no one alive who has ever known me. That’s when I will be truly dead – when I exist in no one’s memory.
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Mature love is loving, not being loved.
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Despair is the price one pays for self-awareness. Look deeply into life, and you’ll always find despair.
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If we climb high enough, we will reach a height from which tragedy ceases to look tragic.
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If one is to learn to live with the dead, one must first learn to live with the living!
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Look out the other’s window. Try to see the world as your patient sees it.
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