Mature love is loving, not being loved.
IRVIN D. YALOMIt is wrong to bear children out of need, wrong to use a child to alleviate loneliness, wrong to provide purpose in life by reproducing another copy of oneself. It is wrong also to seek immortality by spewing one’s germ into the future as though sperm contains your consciousness!
More Irvin D. Yalom Quotes
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If I had to pick out a therapist in a movie that I’d like to go see as a personal therapist, it would be Robin Williams in Goodwill Hunting.
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Many people are in despair because their dreams didn’t come true, and they despair even more that they did not make them come true.
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Despair is the price one pays for self-awareness. Look deeply into life, and you’ll always find despair.
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A focus on this deep dissatisfaction is often the starting point in overcoming death anxiety.
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Absolute power, as we have always known, corrupts absolutely; it corrupts because it does not do the trick for the individual.
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Some day soon, perhaps in forty years, there will be no one alive who has ever known me. That’s when I will be truly dead – when I exist in no one’s memory.
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Live your life to the fullest; and then, and only then, die. Don’t leave any unlived life behind.
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Life is a spark between two identical voids, the darkness before birth and the one after death.
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The path to decision may be hard because it leads into the territory of both finiteness and groundlessness—domains soaked in anxiety.
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There are borderlines and there are borderlines. Labels do violence to people. You can’t treat the label; you have to treat the person behind the label. (17)
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Never take away anything if you have nothing better to offer
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If we climb high enough, we will reach a height from which tragedy ceases to look tragic.
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A free man who lives among the ignorant strives as far as he can to avoid their favors. A free man acts honestly, not deceptively.
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The act of revealing oneself fully to another and still being accepted may be the major vehicle of therapeutic help.
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The creative members of an orthodoxy, any orthodoxy, ultimately outgrow their disciplines.
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