Death, however, does itch. It itches all the time. It is always with us, scratching at some inner door.
IRVIN D. YALOMWhat? ‘Borderline patients play games’? That what you said? Ernest, you’ll never be a real therapist if you think like that. That’s exactly what I meant earlier when I talked about the dangers of diagnosis.
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In a study we did of bereavement, we found that rather impressive numbers of widows and widowers had not simply gone back to their pre-loss functioning, but grown.
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Psychiatry is a strange field because, unlike any other field of medicine, you never really finish.
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Some day soon, perhaps in forty years, there will be no one alive who has ever known me. That’s when I will be truly dead – when I exist in no one’s memory.
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Marriage and its entourage of possession and jealousy enslave the spirit.
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Only the wounded healer can truly heal. (97)
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The spirit of a man is constructed out of his choices.
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I thought a lot about how someone very old is the last living individual to have known some person or cluster of people.
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Your greatest instrument is you, yourself, and the work of self-understanding is endless. I’m still learning.
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Hidden in disguise, leaking out in a variety of symptoms. It is the wellspring of many of our worries, stresses, and conflicts.
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One doesn’t do existential therapy as a freestanding separate theory; rather it informs your approach to such issues as death, which many therapists tend to shy away from.
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Life as a therapist is a life of service in which we daily transcend our personal wishes and turn our gaze toward the needs and growth of the other.
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Every person must choose how much truth he can stand.
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You know, I think everybody I’ve seen has come from some other therapy, and almost invariably it’s very much the same thing: the therapist is too disinterested, a little too aloof, a little too inactive. They’re not really interested in the person, he doesn’t relate to the person.
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Life is a spark between two identical voids, the darkness before birth and the one after death.
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I dream of a love that is more than two people craving to possess one another.
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