To the extent that one is responsible for one’s life, one is alone.
IRVIN D. YALOMLiving safely is dangerous.
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The creative members of an orthodoxy, any orthodoxy, ultimately outgrow their disciplines.
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I dream of a love that is more than two people craving to possess one another.
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Perhaps the single most important therapeutic credo that I have is that the unexamined life is not worth living.
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You know, I think everybody I’ve seen has come from some other therapy, and almost invariably it’s very much the same thing: the therapist is too disinterested, a little too aloof, a little too inactive. They’re not really interested in the person, he doesn’t relate to the person.
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I think my quarry is illusion. I war against magic. I believe that, though illusion often cheers and comforts, it ultimately and invariably weakens and constricts the spirit.
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If you want to choose the pleasure of growth, prepare yourself for some pain.
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Living safely is dangerous.
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To love means to be actively concerned for the life and the growth of another.
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Despair is the price one pays for self-awareness. Look deeply into life, and you’ll always find despair.
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There are borderlines and there are borderlines. Labels do violence to people. You can’t treat the label; you have to treat the person behind the label. (17)
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If we climb high enough, we will reach a height from which tragedy ceases to look tragic.
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Live your life to the fullest; and then, and only then, die. Don’t leave any unlived life behind.
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Some day soon, perhaps in forty years, there will be no one alive who has ever known me. That’s when I will be truly dead – when I exist in no one’s memory.
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Reality always creeps in–the reality of our helplessness and our mortality; the reality that, despite our reach for the stars, a creaturely fate awaits us.
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Just as you were about to step on it, I asked you “Do you want to cross the footbridge to me?” – Immediately you did not want to anymore; and when I asked you again you remained silent.
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