Death cures psychoneurosis. In a sense all these neurotic concerns–fear of rejection, interpersonal concerns–seem to melt away, and people get another perspective on their lives. The important things are really important, and the trivia of life is trivialized.
IRVIN D. YALOMI dream of a love that is more than two people craving to possess one another.
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I think we ripple on into others, just like a stone puts its ripples into a brook. That, for me, too, is a source of comfort. It kind of, in a sense, negates the sense of total oblivion.
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Despite the staunchest, most venerable defenses, we can never completely subdue death anxiety: it is always there, lurking in some hidden ravine of the mind.
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To the best of my knowledge, every acute inpatient ward offers some inpatient group therapy experience.
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All these things I’ve written so much about. That’s why I’ve made such a practice really, over and over to hammer home the point of self-revelation and being more of yourself and showing yourself. Every book I write I want to get that in there.
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Specialness as a primary mode of death transcendence takes a number of other maladaptive forms.
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To the extent that one is responsible for one’s life, one is alone.
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I never want to take away something when I don’t have anything better to offer him in a way.
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The pain is there; when you close one door on it, it knocks to come in somewhere else.
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You know, I think everybody I’ve seen has come from some other therapy, and almost invariably it’s very much the same thing: the therapist is too disinterested, a little too aloof, a little too inactive. They’re not really interested in the person, he doesn’t relate to the person.
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There was a time in our lives when we were so close that nothing seemed to obstruct our friendship and brotherhood, and only a small footbridge separated us.
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Never take away anything if you have nothing better to offer
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Does a being who requires meaning find meaning in a universe that has no meaning?
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Psychiatry is a strange field because, unlike any other field of medicine, you never really finish.
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Some day soon, perhaps in forty years, there will be no one alive who has ever known me. That’s when I will be truly dead – when I exist in no one’s memory.
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Despair is the price one pays for self-awareness. Look deeply into life, and you’ll always find despair.
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