None of my patients are really troubled by the idea that some part of what they say might be in a book in the future.
IRVIN D. YALOMI dream of a love that is more than two people craving to possess one another.
More Irvin D. Yalom Quotes
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The therapist can make the group feel safer by allowing each patient to set his or her limits and by emphasizing the patient’s control over every interaction.
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Mirroring, softly, barely audibly, just under the membrane of consciousness.
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Life is a miserable thing. I have decided to spend my life thinking about it.
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Life as a therapist is a life of service in which we daily transcend our personal wishes and turn our gaze toward the needs and growth of the other.
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The death anxiety of many people is fueled … by disappointment at never having fulfilled their potential.
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Self-awareness is a supreme gift, a treasure as precious as life.
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What? ‘Borderline patients play games’? That what you said? Ernest, you’ll never be a real therapist if you think like that. That’s exactly what I meant earlier when I talked about the dangers of diagnosis.
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One comprehends oneself in order not to be preoccupied with oneself.
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Psychotherapy is a cyclical process from isolation into relationship. It is cyclical because the patient, in terror of existential isolation, relates deeply and meaningfully to the therapist and then, strengthened by this encounter, is led back again to a confrontation with existential isolation.
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If I’m among men who don’t agree at all with my nature, I will hardly be able to accommodate myself to them without greatly changing myself.
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He had learned long ago that, in general, the easier it was for anxious patients to reach him, the less likely they were to call. (107)
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Death anxiety is the mother of all religions, which, in one way or another, attempt to temper the anguish of our finitude.
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The creative members of an orthodoxy, any orthodoxy, ultimately outgrow their disciplines.
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A curious thought experiment. . . Nietzsche’s message to us was to live life in such a way that we would be willing to repeat the same life eternally
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If we climb high enough, we will reach a height from which tragedy ceases to look tragic.
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