Mirroring, softly, barely audibly, just under the membrane of consciousness.
IRVIN D. YALOMSome day soon, perhaps in forty years, there will be no one alive who has ever known me. That’s when I will be truly dead – when I exist in no one’s memory.
More Irvin D. Yalom Quotes
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Death anxiety is the mother of all religions, which, in one way or another, attempt to temper the anguish of our finitude.
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Life is a miserable thing. I have decided to spend my life thinking about it.
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Were not teaching our students the importance of relationships with other people: how you work with them, what the relational pathology consists of, how you examine your own conscience, how you examine the inner world, how you examine your dreams.
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Live your life to the fullest; and then, and only then, die. Don’t leave any unlived life behind.
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Not to take possession of your life plan is to let your existence be an accident.
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The spirit of a man is constructed out of his choices.
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None of my patients are really troubled by the idea that some part of what they say might be in a book in the future.
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He had learned long ago that, in general, the easier it was for anxious patients to reach him, the less likely they were to call. (107)
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One doesn’t do existential therapy as a freestanding separate theory; rather it informs your approach to such issues as death, which many therapists tend to shy away from.
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In a study we did of bereavement, we found that rather impressive numbers of widows and widowers had not simply gone back to their pre-loss functioning, but grown.
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The death anxiety of many people is fueled … by disappointment at never having fulfilled their potential.
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Perhaps the single most important therapeutic credo that I have is that the unexamined life is not worth living.
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Rather, love is a way of being, a “giving to,” not a ‘falling for”; a mode of relating at large, not an act limited to a single person.
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Many people are in despair because their dreams didn’t come true, and they despair even more that they did not make them come true.
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Marriage and its entourage of possession and jealousy enslave the spirit.
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