There was a time in our lives when we were so close that nothing seemed to obstruct our friendship and brotherhood, and only a small footbridge separated us.
IRVIN D. YALOMSome day soon, perhaps in forty years, there will be no one alive who has ever known me. That’s when I will be truly dead – when I exist in no one’s memory.
More Irvin D. Yalom Quotes
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The spirit of a man is constructed out of his choices.
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The more you fail to experience your life fully, the more you will fear death.
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Death, however, does itch. It itches all the time. It is always with us, scratching at some inner door.
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The path to decision may be hard because it leads into the territory of both finiteness and groundlessness—domains soaked in anxiety.
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Rather, love is a way of being, a “giving to,” not a ‘falling for”; a mode of relating at large, not an act limited to a single person.
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There are borderlines and there are borderlines. Labels do violence to people. You can’t treat the label; you have to treat the person behind the label. (17)
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Your greatest instrument is you, yourself, and the work of self-understanding is endless. I’m still learning.
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My hunch is yes. It would certainly do something for those who are most ruthless, who tend to make others most miserable.
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Some have expressed the very opposite feeling–the fear that they would not be interesting enough to write about.
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In a study we did of bereavement, we found that rather impressive numbers of widows and widowers had not simply gone back to their pre-loss functioning, but grown.
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Despair is the price one pays for self-awareness. Look deeply into life, and you’ll always find despair.
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Pandora’s box, but to re-enter life in a richer, more compassionate manner.
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If I had to pick out a therapist in a movie that I’d like to go see as a personal therapist, it would be Robin Williams in Goodwill Hunting.
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A free man who lives among the ignorant strives as far as he can to avoid their favors. A free man acts honestly, not deceptively.
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I never want to take away something when I don’t have anything better to offer him in a way.
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