I never want to take away something when I don’t have anything better to offer him in a way.
IRVIN D. YALOMMirroring, softly, barely audibly, just under the membrane of consciousness.
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You will search the world over and not find a nonsuperstitious community. As long as there is ignorance, there will be adherence to superstition. Dispelling ignorance is the only solution. That is why I teach.
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Perhaps the single most important therapeutic credo that I have is that the unexamined life is not worth living.
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Death, however, does itch. It itches all the time. It is always with us, scratching at some inner door.
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Every person must choose how much truth he can stand.
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There was a time in our lives when we were so close that nothing seemed to obstruct our friendship and brotherhood, and only a small footbridge separated us.
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The more unlived your life, the greater your death anxiety.
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I must stop him from being one of those who call themselves good because they have no claws.
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If we climb high enough, we will reach a height from which tragedy ceases to look tragic.
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As we reach the crest of life and look at the path before us, we apprehend that the path no longer ascends but slopes downward toward decline and diminishment. From that point on, concerns about death are never far from mind.
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Death cures psychoneurosis. In a sense all these neurotic concerns–fear of rejection, interpersonal concerns–seem to melt away, and people get another perspective on their lives. The important things are really important, and the trivia of life is trivialized.
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You know, I think everybody I’ve seen has come from some other therapy, and almost invariably it’s very much the same thing: the therapist is too disinterested, a little too aloof, a little too inactive. They’re not really interested in the person, he doesn’t relate to the person.
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If people in their 20s had more death awareness, would that in fact temper their ambition or drive?
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I think we ripple on into others, just like a stone puts its ripples into a brook. That, for me, too, is a source of comfort. It kind of, in a sense, negates the sense of total oblivion.
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Psychiatry is a strange field because, unlike any other field of medicine, you never really finish.
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None of my patients are really troubled by the idea that some part of what they say might be in a book in the future.
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