Your greatest instrument is you, yourself, and the work of self-understanding is endless. I’m still learning.
IRVIN D. YALOMThis was due to a kind of increased existential awareness that resulted from this confrontation with the death of another. And I think it brought them in touch with their own death, so they began to experience a kind of preciousness to life that comes with an experience of its transiency.
More Irvin D. Yalom Quotes
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The pain is there; when you close one door on it, it knocks to come in somewhere else.
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Death, however, does itch. It itches all the time. It is always with us, scratching at some inner door.
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He had learned long ago that, in general, the easier it was for anxious patients to reach him, the less likely they were to call. (107)
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If I’m among men who don’t agree at all with my nature, I will hardly be able to accommodate myself to them without greatly changing myself.
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Never take away anything if you have nothing better to offer
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When we have forgotten ourselves and become absorbed in someone (or something) outside ourselves
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This is what makes us human. But it comes with a costly price: the wound of mortality. Our existence is forever shadowed by the knowledge that we will grow, blossom, and, inevitably, diminish and die.
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When that person dies, the whole cluster dies,too, vanishes from the living memory. I wonder who that person will be for me. Whose death will make me truly dead?
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Specialness as a primary mode of death transcendence takes a number of other maladaptive forms.
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All these things I’ve written so much about. That’s why I’ve made such a practice really, over and over to hammer home the point of self-revelation and being more of yourself and showing yourself. Every book I write I want to get that in there.
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The death anxiety of many people is fueled … by disappointment at never having fulfilled their potential.
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Though the physicality of death destroys us, the idea of death may save us.
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I don’t let any personal views about religion cause me to want to take away something that’s offering the patient comfort.
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Live your life to the fullest; and then, and only then, die. Don’t leave any unlived life behind.
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Not to take possession of your life plan is to let your existence be an accident.
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