I dream of a love that is more than two people craving to possess one another.
IRVIN D. YALOMThis was due to a kind of increased existential awareness that resulted from this confrontation with the death of another. And I think it brought them in touch with their own death, so they began to experience a kind of preciousness to life that comes with an experience of its transiency.
More Irvin D. Yalom Quotes
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When we have forgotten ourselves and become absorbed in someone (or something) outside ourselves
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A free man who lives among the ignorant strives as far as he can to avoid their favors. A free man acts honestly, not deceptively.
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Not to take possession of your life plan is to let your existence be an accident.
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I never want to take away something when I don’t have anything better to offer him in a way.
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One comprehends oneself in order not to be preoccupied with oneself.
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Rather, love is a way of being, a “giving to,” not a ‘falling for”; a mode of relating at large, not an act limited to a single person.
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The death anxiety of many people is fueled … by disappointment at never having fulfilled their potential.
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Therapists need to have a long experience in personal therapy to see what it’s like to be on the other side of the couch and see what they find helpful or not helpful. And if possible, get into therapy at different stages of their life with different kinds of therapists just to sample a bit.
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You know, I think everybody I’ve seen has come from some other therapy, and almost invariably it’s very much the same thing: the therapist is too disinterested, a little too aloof, a little too inactive. They’re not really interested in the person, he doesn’t relate to the person.
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Life is a miserable thing. I have decided to spend my life thinking about it.
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Love is not just a passion spark between two people; there is infinite difference between falling in love and standing in love.
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As we reach the crest of life and look at the path before us, we apprehend that the path no longer ascends but slopes downward toward decline and diminishment. From that point on, concerns about death are never far from mind.
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Though the physicality of death destroys us, the idea of death may save us.
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Marriage and its entourage of possession and jealousy enslave the spirit.
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Your greatest instrument is you, yourself, and the work of self-understanding is endless. I’m still learning.
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