The spirit of a man is constructed out of his choices.
IRVIN D. YALOMThis was due to a kind of increased existential awareness that resulted from this confrontation with the death of another. And I think it brought them in touch with their own death, so they began to experience a kind of preciousness to life that comes with an experience of its transiency.
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Death cures psychoneurosis. In a sense all these neurotic concerns–fear of rejection, interpersonal concerns–seem to melt away, and people get another perspective on their lives. The important things are really important, and the trivia of life is trivialized.
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Specialness as a primary mode of death transcendence takes a number of other maladaptive forms.
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Therapists need to have a long experience in personal therapy to see what it’s like to be on the other side of the couch and see what they find helpful or not helpful. And if possible, get into therapy at different stages of their life with different kinds of therapists just to sample a bit.
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The path to decision may be hard because it leads into the territory of both finiteness and groundlessness—domains soaked in anxiety.
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Live right, he reminded himself, and have faith that good things will flow from you even if you never learn of them.
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Self-awareness is a supreme gift, a treasure as precious as life.
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I don’t let any personal views about religion cause me to want to take away something that’s offering the patient comfort.
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A focus on this deep dissatisfaction is often the starting point in overcoming death anxiety.
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Perhaps the single most important therapeutic credo that I have is that the unexamined life is not worth living.
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Every person must choose how much truth he can stand.
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Religion has everything on its side: revelation, prophecies, government protection, the highest dignity and eminence. . . and more than this, the invaluable prerogative of being allowed to imprint its doctrines on the mind at a tender age of childhood, whereby they become almost innate ideas.
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Were not teaching our students the importance of relationships with other people: how you work with them, what the relational pathology consists of, how you examine your own conscience, how you examine the inner world, how you examine your dreams.
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I dream of a love that is more than two people craving to possess one another.
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Absolute power, as we have always known, corrupts absolutely; it corrupts because it does not do the trick for the individual.
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Love is not just a passion spark between two people; there is infinite difference between falling in love and standing in love.
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