Live right, he reminded himself, and have faith that good things will flow from you even if you never learn of them.
IRVIN D. YALOM…the more unlived your life, the greater your death anxiety.
More Irvin D. Yalom Quotes
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My hunch is yes. It would certainly do something for those who are most ruthless, who tend to make others most miserable.
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You know, I think everybody I’ve seen has come from some other therapy, and almost invariably it’s very much the same thing: the therapist is too disinterested, a little too aloof, a little too inactive. They’re not really interested in the person, he doesn’t relate to the person.
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Absolute power, as we have always known, corrupts absolutely; it corrupts because it does not do the trick for the individual.
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Love is not just a passion spark between two people; there is infinite difference between falling in love and standing in love.
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Mature love is loving, not being loved.
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Just as you were about to step on it, I asked you “Do you want to cross the footbridge to me?” – Immediately you did not want to anymore; and when I asked you again you remained silent.
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Many people are in despair because their dreams didn’t come true, and they despair even more that they did not make them come true.
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I never want to take away something when I don’t have anything better to offer him in a way.
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Look out the other’s window. Try to see the world as your patient sees it.
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One thing I feel clear about is that it’s important not to let your life live you. Otherwise, you end up at forty feeling you haven’t really lived. What have I learned? Perhaps to live now, so that at fifty I won’t look back upon my forties with regret.
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Marriage and its entourage of possession and jealousy enslave the spirit.
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The therapist can make the group feel safer by allowing each patient to set his or her limits and by emphasizing the patient’s control over every interaction.
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Does a being who requires meaning find meaning in a universe that has no meaning?
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I must stop him from being one of those who call themselves good because they have no claws.
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Hidden in disguise, leaking out in a variety of symptoms. It is the wellspring of many of our worries, stresses, and conflicts.
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