Living safely is dangerous.
IRVIN D. YALOM…the more unlived your life, the greater your death anxiety.
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Reality always creeps in–the reality of our helplessness and our mortality; the reality that, despite our reach for the stars, a creaturely fate awaits us.
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Despair is the price one pays for self-awareness. Look deeply into life, and you’ll always find despair.
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Life is a spark between two identical voids, the darkness before birth and the one after death.
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Were not teaching our students the importance of relationships with other people: how you work with them, what the relational pathology consists of, how you examine your own conscience, how you examine the inner world, how you examine your dreams.
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Rather, love is a way of being, a “giving to,” not a ‘falling for”; a mode of relating at large, not an act limited to a single person.
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I think my quarry is illusion. I war against magic. I believe that, though illusion often cheers and comforts, it ultimately and invariably weakens and constricts the spirit.
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The creative members of an orthodoxy, any orthodoxy, ultimately outgrow their disciplines.
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There was a time in our lives when we were so close that nothing seemed to obstruct our friendship and brotherhood, and only a small footbridge separated us.
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It’s not easy to live every moment wholly aware of death. It’s like trying to stare the sun in the face: you can stand only so much of it. Because we cannot live frozen in fear, we generate methods to soften death’s terror.
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Absolute power, as we have always known, corrupts absolutely; it corrupts because it does not do the trick for the individual.
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…the more unlived your life, the greater your death anxiety.
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A focus on this deep dissatisfaction is often the starting point in overcoming death anxiety.
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To care of another individual means to know and to experience the other as fully as possible.
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Specialness as a primary mode of death transcendence takes a number of other maladaptive forms.
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A curious thought experiment. . . Nietzsche’s message to us was to live life in such a way that we would be willing to repeat the same life eternally
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