Good pain is pain in the service of a purpose. Bad pain is pain endured because we are resisting a needed growth step.
HENRY CLOUDCouples often live out years of falsehood trying to protect and save a relationship, all the while destroying any chance of real relationship.
More Henry Cloud Quotes
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There’s no better way to become a disintegrated character than to be your own authority.
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When you encourage someone, it literally changes their brain chemistry to be able to perform, sends fuel to the brain.
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The opposite of bad is not good.The opposite of bad is love
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True intimacy is only build around the freedom to disagree.
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Because dating is a human exercise, it can be a tightrope fraught with danger. You will be dating imperfect people, and some of them are more imperfect than others. In addition, you are not perfect either, so that complicates the picture.
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Whatever’s happening today, remember it is only ONE SCENE in a long movie. Don’t treat it like it’s the whole story. Keep writing the story.
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We have our own thoughts, and if we want others to know them, we must tell them.
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I’m not an expert in the sociological realities of all the pastors in the world, but I would say that there are some very, very positive things about the state of integrity in church leaders.
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In the end, as a leader, you are always going to get a combination of two things: what you create and what you allow.
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If people are really narcissistic or have a need to be seen as more than they really are, or to be admired as having it all together, then they cannot be followed and trusted by others.
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Dating should be a part of your life, not your life a part of dating. There is more to life than finding a date.
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Being right can never compete with doing well.
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Independence is not an option for us. Remember, God existed without us.
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Christianity is not about morality. It’s about reality.
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The business of church is ultimately people. You’re trying to heal people, grow people, teach people, and mend people. And when leaders spend all of their time helping and growing other people, they ignore their own growth.
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