In the end, as a leader, you are always going to get a combination of two things: what you create and what you allow.
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In the end, as a leader, you are always going to get a combination of two things: what you create and what you allow.
HENRY CLOUDThe amount of truth a relationship can handle is proportional to the amount of perceived love that’s present.
HENRY CLOUDLeadership is not taken, it is given. People give leadership to those that they trust. They allow people that they trust to have influence over their lives.
HENRY CLOUDA person who hasn’t grieved a significant loss has unfinished business inside and can cause others great grief as a result.
HENRY CLOUDSpouses in healthy relationships cherish each other’s space and are champions of each other’s causes.
HENRY CLOUDMarriage is not slavery. It is based on a love relationship deeply rooted in freedom. Each partner is free from the other and therefore free to love the other. Where there is control, or perception of control, there is not love. Love only exists where there is freedom.
HENRY CLOUDThe business of church is ultimately people. You’re trying to heal people, grow people, teach people, and mend people. And when leaders spend all of their time helping and growing other people, they ignore their own growth.
HENRY CLOUDEverything has seasons, and we have to be able to recognize when something’s time has passed and be able to move into the next season. Everything that is alive requires pruning as well, which is a great metaphor for endings.
HENRY CLOUDEndings are a part of life, and we are actually wired to execute them. But because of trauma, developmental failures, and other reasons, we shy away from the steps that could open up whole new worlds of development and growth.
HENRY CLOUDTo rescue people from the natural consequences of their behavior is to render them powerless.
HENRY CLOUDDiligence is not easy, but we can’t reach our goals without it.
HENRY CLOUDA culture is like an immune system. It operates through the laws of systems, just like a body. If a body has an infection, the immune system deals with it. Similarly, a group enforces its norms, either actively or passively.
HENRY CLOUDHe is the Truth, and He wants us to deal in truth with ourselves and our loved ones. We want the truth about you and your family to flood into and overrun the secrets that keep you in bondage to dysfunctional behavior and relationships.
HENRY CLOUDAnger is frustration at the fact that we are not God, and do not have control over reality.
HENRY CLOUDDating is a place to practice how to relate to other people.
HENRY CLOUDSuccessful people stick to what they are good at and find ways to make that larger.
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