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We need rest not just so we feel better. We need rest for actual creation of what we’re going to need the next day.

Henry Cloud

To get greater than 100% return on a growth step, give up defensiveness. Defensiveness stifles performance, and destroys relationships.
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Destroy Greatness Performance Relationship Return
When truth presents itself, the wise person see the light, takes it in, and makes adjustments. The fool tries to adjust the truth so he does not have to adjust to it.
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Adjust Person Present Truth Wisdom
Dating is a give and take. If you only see it as “Taking,” you are not getting it.
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Date Equality Yourself
Dating is a place to practice how to relate to other people.
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Date People Place Practice
Dating should be a part of your life, not your life a part of dating. There is more to life than finding a date.
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Date Finding Life
We need rest not just so we feel better. We need rest for actual creation of what we’re going to need the next day.
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Better Creation Day Feeling Need
Anger is frustration at the fact that we are not God, and do not have control over reality.
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Angry Control Fact Frustration Ourselves Reality
Dating is about finding out who you are and who others are. If you show up in a masquerade outfit, neither is going to happen.
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Date Discover Finding Yourself
The natural response to evaluation is to feel judged. We have to mature to a place where we respond to it with gratitude, and love feedback.
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Anand Thakur
Confronting an irresponsible person is not painful to him; only consequences are.
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Anand Thakur
In the end, as a leader, you are always going to get a combination of two things: what you create and what you allow.
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Anand Thakur
Leave your pride, ego, and narcissism somewhere else. Reactions from those parts of you will reinforce your children’s most primitive fears.
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Children Fear Leave Pride Reaction Yourself
Love can only exist where freedom and responsibility are operating.
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Existence Freedom Love Operation Responsibility
True intimacy is only build around the freedom to disagree.
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Built Disagree Freedom Intimacy True
Good pain is pain in the service of a purpose. Bad pain is pain endured because we are resisting a needed growth step.
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Endurance Goodness Growth Pain Resistance
We have our own thoughts, and if we want others to know them, we must tell them.
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Ourselves Talk Thinking

We need rest not just so we feel better. We need rest for actual creation of what we’re going to need the next day.

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