Dating is a place to practice how to relate to other people.
HENRY CLOUDBe Hard on the issue, Soft on the person.
More Henry Cloud Quotes
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If you are building a culture where honest expectations are communicated and peer accountability is the norm, then the group will address poor performance and attitudes.
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We change our behavior when the pain of staying the same becomes greater than the pain of changing. Consequences give us the pain that motivates us to change.
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If your boundary training consists only of words, you are wasting your breath. But if you ‘do’ boundaries with your kids, they internalize the experiences, remember them, digest them, and make them part of how they see reality.
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Confronting an irresponsible person is not painful to him; only consequences are.
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Couples often live out years of falsehood trying to protect and save a relationship, all the while destroying any chance of real relationship.
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One of the worst things you can die with is potential.
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The sad thing is that many of us come to Christ because we are sinners, and then spend the rest of our lives trying to pretend that we are not!
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Endings are a part of life, and we are actually wired to execute them. But because of trauma, developmental failures, and other reasons, we shy away from the steps that could open up whole new worlds of development and growth.
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For someone’s character to grow, it has to be free from internal attack. Falling down never stopped children from developing. But getting yelled at, criticized, and put down can stop them for life.
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Being right can never compete with doing well.
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There’s no better way to become a disintegrated character than to be your own authority.
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True intimacy is only build around the freedom to disagree.
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Diligence is not easy, but we can’t reach our goals without it.
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Some goals are not going to fulfill you. Choose goals that you value and care about.
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A culture is like an immune system. It operates through the laws of systems, just like a body. If a body has an infection, the immune system deals with it. Similarly, a group enforces its norms, either actively or passively.
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