Criticism is futile because it puts a person on the defensive and usually makes them strive to justify themselves. Criticism is dangerous, because it wounds a person’s precious pride, hurts their sense of importance, and arouses resentment.
DALE CARNEGIERemember happiness doesn’t depend upon who you are or what you have; it depends solely on what you think.
More Dale Carnegie Quotes
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Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.
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Knowledge isn’t power until it is applied.
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Listen first. Give your opponents a chance to talk. Let them finish. Do not resist, defend or debate. This only raises barriers. Try to build bridges of understanding.
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Arouse in the other person an eager want. He who can do this has the whole world with him. He who cannot walks a lonely way.
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Pay less attention to what men say. Just watch what they do.
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If you want to gather honey, don’t kick over the beehive.
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Everybody in the world is seeking happiness – and there is one sure way to find it. That is by controlling your thoughts. Happiness doesn’t depend on outward conditions. It depends on inner conditions.
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If you believe in what you are doing, then let nothing hold you up in your work.
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Your smile brightens the lives of all who see it. To someone who has seen a dozen people frown, scowl or turn their faces away, your smile is like the sun breaking through the clouds.
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Perhaps you will forget tomorrow the kind words you say today, but the recipient may cherish them over a lifetime.
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Actions speak louder than words, and a smile says, ‘I like you. You make me happy. I am glad to see you.
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Instead of worrying about what people say of you, why not spend time trying to accomplish something they will admire.
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You can conquer almost any fear if you will only make up your mind to do so. For remember, fear doesn’t exist anywhere except in the mind.
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Your smile brightens the lives of all who see it.
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Believe you will be successful and you will.
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