Talk about your own mistakes before criticizing the other person.
DALE CARNEGIE
DALE CARNEGIE
Dale Carnegie on criticism
Dale Carnegie99 quotes“Talk about your own mistakes before criticizing the other person.”
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Criticism is futile because it puts a person on the defensive and usually makes them strive to justify themselves. Criticism is dangerous, because it wounds a person’s precious pride, hurts their sense of importance, and arouses resentment.
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Dale CarnegieDale Carnegie You never achieve success unless you like what you are doing.
Dale CarnegieDale Carnegie Are you bored with life? Then throw yourself into some work you believe in with all your heart, live for it, die for it, and you will find happiness that you had thought could never be yours.
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Dale CarnegieDale Carnegie I’ve found that worry and irritation vanish into thin air the moment I open my mind to the many blessings I possess.
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Dale CarnegieDale Carnegie The only way to get the best of an argument is to avoid it.
Dale CarnegieDale Carnegie Today is life-the only life you are sure of. Make the most of today. Get interested in something. Shake yourself awake. Develop a hobby. Let the winds of enthusiasm sweep through you. Live today with gusto.
Dale CarnegieDale Carnegie So if you aspire to be a good conversationalist, be an attentive listener. To be interesting, be interested. Ask questions that other persons will enjoy answering. Encourage them to talk about themselves and their accomplishments.
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I had three rules for my players: No profanity. Don’t criticize a teammate. Never be late.
John WoodenJohn Wooden Young people need models, not critics.
John WoodenJohn Wooden I never read reviews. I’m not interested. But I value a lot the reactions of the spectators.
Hayao MiyazakiHayao Miyazaki Criticism is just a part of life, a prevalent part of life, and somehow, people don’t take it very well.
Edgar DoucetEdgar Doucet I can take critism, but if it’s like ‘I don’t like you’ then I want to know why people don’t like me. Why do you hate me? What have I done?
Harry StylesHarry Styles If you don’t have critics, you probably don’t have success either.
Nicki MinajNicki Minaj You can’t criticize people for wanting to have a decent life or wanting to live decently.
Angela DavisAngela Davis Please criticize me, but how can you accuse me of something like fixing a cricket game after all that the game has given me.
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