You might believe that it’s only for their own good, but how does it feel when you try to manipulate the people you love? Are you teaching them that your love is conditional? Maybe through inquiry we can find another way.
BYRON KATIEIn my experience, we don’t make thoughts appear, they just appear. One day, I noticed that their appearance just wasn’t personal. Noticing that really makes it simpler to inquire.
More Byron Katie Quotes
-
-
Placing the blame or judgment on someone else leaves you powerless to change your experience; taking responsibility for your beliefs and judgments gives you the power to change them.
BYRON KATIE -
I have never experienced a stressful feeling that wasn’t caused by attaching to an untrue thought. Behind every uncomfortable feeling, there’s a thought that isn’t true for us.
BYRON KATIE -
The greatest stock market you can invest in is yourself. Finding this truth is better than finding a gold mine.
BYRON KATIE -
Realizing that people should lie when they do makes me a little more open-minded, a little more tolerant, when my child or my partner lies.
BYRON KATIE -
You move totally away from reality when you believe that there is a legitimate reason to suffer”.
BYRON KATIE -
Look at your life without the thought “Something terrible is going to happen.”
BYRON KATIE -
Gratitude is what we are without a story.
BYRON KATIE -
Thinking that people are supposed to do or be anything other than what they are is like saying that the tree over there should be the sky. I investigated that and found freedom.
BYRON KATIE -
Thinking that what you want equals what’s best for you is a dead end.
BYRON KATIE -
When we love what is, it becomes so simple to live in the world. The world is exactly as it should be.
BYRON KATIE -
We suffer only until we realize that we can’t know anything.
BYRON KATIE -
Every stressful thought is a variation on a single theme: This shouldn’t be happening. I shouldn’t be having this experience. God is unjust. Life isn’t fair.
BYRON KATIE -
Since the past is unreal and the future is unreal, all your thoughts are about nothing.
BYRON KATIE -
Until you can love what is – everything, including the apparent violence and craziness – you’re separate from the world, and you’ll see it as dangerous and frightening.
BYRON KATIE -
The Ego’s job is to kill everything but itself.
BYRON KATIE