When you believe that your problem is caused by someone or something else, you become your own victim.
BYRON KATIEUntil you can love what is – everything, including the apparent violence and craziness – you’re separate from the world, and you’ll see it as dangerous and frightening.
More Byron Katie Quotes
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The last story: God is everything, God is good.
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Nothing outside you can ever give you what you’re looking for.
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Questioning our stressful thoughts, we come to see they’re not true.
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No one has ever been angry at another human being-we’re only angry at our story of them.
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After you’ve been doing inquiry for a while, if you have the thought “She doesn’t love me,” you just get the immediate turnaround with a smile: “Oh, I’m not loving myself in this moment.”
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Fear has only two causes: the thought of losing what you have or the thought of not getting what you want.
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We are never really in control. We just think we are when things happen to be going our way.
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You don’t experience anxiety unless you’re attached to a thought that isn’t true for you. It’s that simple.
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The miracle of love comes to you in the presence of the uninterpreted moment. If you are mentally somewhere else, you miss real life.
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It only takes one clear person to have a good relationship.
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Spare yourself from seeking love, approval, or appreciation-from anyone. And watch what happens in reality, just for fun.
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When you discover that all happiness is inside you, the wanting and needing are over, and life gets very exciting.
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We do not mature through age. We mature in awareness.
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Suffering over things that have happened to us is nothing more than an argument with the past.
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What would it be like to let go of wanting things to be other than they are?
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