Without an uninvestigated story, there’s only the perfection of life appearing as itself. You can always go inside and find the beauty that’s revealed after the pain and fear are understood.
BYRON KATIEUntil you can love what is – everything, including the apparent violence and craziness – you’re separate from the world, and you’ll see it as dangerous and frightening.
More Byron Katie Quotes
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When we believe in our thoughts, when we tell ourselves a story, we suffer. ‘My husband doesn’t respect me.’ ‘I should be thinner.’ Those are stories. When there’s no story, there’s no suffering.
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It’s not the problem that causes our suffering; it’s our thinking about the problem.
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To exclude anything that appears in your universe is not love. Love joins with everything. It doesn’t exclude the monster. It doesn’t avoid the nightmare – it looks forward to it.
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Thinking that what you want equals what’s best for you is a dead end.
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We begin to not be human, as we’ve known it, any longer. But to be just creative minds and action, whereas right now we’re confused minds and actions, and our environment mirrors that back to us.
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Life just happens. It’s what you’re believing about life that makes you suffer.
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If I want something, I go get it. Anything that I believe will stop me, I question.
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It makes sense that no one else can cause you pain. That’s your job.
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I love what I think, and I’m never tempted to believe it.
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You can’t have your daughter as long as you have a concept of her. When you get rid of the concept, you meet your daughter for the first time. That’s the way this works.
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We say to others only what we need to hear.
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Every uncomfortable feeling, every pain, every moment of stress & suffering is for your own self-realization.
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Life is simple. Everything happens for you, not to you.
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Bottom line is, if someone says something about me and it upsets me, it’s true.
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The only time we suffer is when we believe a thought that argues with what is. When the mind is perfectly clear, what is is what we want.
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