He did not mean to depress us, rather to free us from expectations which inspire bitterness. It is consoling, when love has let us down, to hear that happiness was never part of the plan.
ALAIN DE BOTTONMost of what makes a book ‘good’ is that we are reading it at the right moment for us.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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If one felt successful, there’d be so little incentive to be successful.
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We will cease to be angry once we cease to be so hopeful.
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Intimacy is the capacity to be rather weird with someone – and finding that that’s ok with them.
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It is striking how much more seriously we are likely to be taken after we have been dead a few centuries.
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Mental health: having enough safe places in your mind for your thoughts to settle.
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Travel agents would be wiser to ask us what we hope to change about our lives rather than simply where we wish to go.
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Arguments are like eels: however logical, they may slip from the minds weak grasp unless fixed there by imagery and style.
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An argument in a couple: 2 people attempting to introduce each other to important truths – by panicked shouting.
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The media insists on taking what someone didn’t mean to say as being far closer to the truth than what they did.
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Most of us still caged within careers chosen for us by our not entirely worldly 18-22 year old selves.
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Most victories are, in the best way, acts of revenge.
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Literature is the greatest reality simulator – a machine that puts you through infinitely more situations than you can ever directly witness.
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Our greatest furies spring from events which violate our sense of the ground of our existence.
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Journeys are the midwives of thought. Few places are more conducive to internal conversations than moving planes, ships or trains.
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What am I supposed to do here? What am I supposed to think?
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