Do you love me enough that I may be weak with you? Everyone loves strength, but do you love me for my weakness? That is the real test.
ALAIN DE BOTTONMost of what makes a book ‘good’ is that we are reading it at the right moment for us.
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We are all more intelligent than we are capable, and awareness of the insanity of love has never saved anyone from the disease.
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I passionately believe that’s it’s not just what you say that counts, it’s also how you say it – that the success of your argument critically depends on your manner of presenting it.
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We should not feel embarrassed by our difficulties, only by our failure to grow anything beautiful from them.
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It’s hard loving those who don’t much like themselves: “If you’re so great, why would you think I’m so great.
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The problem isn’t so much finding good ideas (there is no shortage) as embedding the ones we have into everyday practice.
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Because it’s bad enough not getting what you want, but it’s even worse to have an idea of what it is you want and find out at the end of the journey that it isn’t, in fact, what you wanted all along.
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Every realistic picture represents a choice as to which features of reality should be given prominence; no painting ever captures the whole.
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Anyone who isn’t embarrassed of who they were last year probably isn’t learning enough.
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Out of the millions of people we live among, most of whom we habitually ignore and are ignored by in turn, there are always a few that hold hostage our capacity for happiness, whom we could recognize by their smell alone and whom we would rather die than be without.
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In the gap between who we wish one day to be and who we are at present, must come pain, anxiety, envy and humiliation.
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Not everyone is worth listening to.
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These inventors were elevating the formulation of entrepreneurial ideas to the status of a visionary activity. Though forced to justify their efforts in the pragmatic language of venture capital, they were at heart utopian thinkers intent on transforming the world.
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The happiness that may emerge from taking a second look is central to Proust’s therapeutic conception. It reveals the extent to which our dissatisfactions may be the result of failing to look properly at our lives rather than the result of anything inherently deficient about them.
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What is fascinating about marriage is why anyone wants to get married.
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The mind does most of its best thinking when we aren’t there. The answers are there in the morning.
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