We are not always humiliated by failing; we are humiliated only if we first invest our pride and sense of worth in a given achievement and then do not reach it.
ALAIN DE BOTTONMost of what makes a book ‘good’ is that we are reading it at the right moment for us.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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The mind does most of its best thinking when we aren’t there. The answers are there in the morning.
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The fear of saying something stupid (which stupid people never have) has censored far more good ideas than bad ones.
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So many complaints boil down to the belly ache of the fragile, mortal, ignored ego in a vast and indifferent universe.
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Work is most fulfilling when you’re at the comfortable, exciting edge of not quite knowing what you are doing.
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Feeling lost, crazy and desperate belongs to a good life as much as optimism, certainty and reason.
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Out of the millions of people we live among, most of whom we habitually ignore and are ignored by in turn, there are always a few that hold hostage our capacity for happiness, whom we could recognize by their smell alone and whom we would rather die than be without.
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The happiness that may emerge from taking a second look is central to Proust’s therapeutic conception. It reveals the extent to which our dissatisfactions may be the result of failing to look properly at our lives rather than the result of anything inherently deficient about them.
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Intuition is unconscious accumulated experience informing judgement in real time.
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Arguments are like eels: however logical, they may slip from the minds weak grasp unless fixed there by imagery and style.
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Our sadness won’t be of the searing kind but more like a blend of joy and melancholy: joy at the perfection we see before us, melancholy at an awareness of how seldom we are sufficiently blessed to encounter anything of its kind.
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Bad art might be defined as a series of bad choices about what to show and what to leave out.
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The mind may be reluctant to think properly when thinking is all it is supposed to do; the task can be as paralysing as having to tell a joke or mimic an accent on demand.
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Only by declaring a book completely finished can one start to see how much remains to be done on it.
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Our homes do not have to offer us permanent occupancy or store our clothes to merit the name. To speak of home in relation to a building is simply to recognise its harmony with our own prized internal song. Home can be an airport or a library, a garden or a motorway diner.
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Although I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
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