It looks like it’s wasting time, but literature is actually the ultimate time-saver – because it gives us access to a range of emotions and events that it would take you years, decades, millennia to try to experience directly.
ALAIN DE BOTTONHow do the stems connect to the roots?’ ‘Where is the mist coming from?’ ‘Why does one tree seem darker than another?’ These questions are implicitly asked and answered in the process of sketching.
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Work is most fulfilling when you’re at the comfortable, exciting edge of not quite knowing what you are doing.
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The best cure for one’s bad tendencies is to see them in action in another person.
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Intuition is unconscious accumulated experience informing judgement in real time.
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To be shown love is to feel ourselves the object of concern: our presence is noted, our name is registered, our views are listened to, our failings are treated with indulgence and our needs are ministered to. And under such care, we flourish.
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Insomnia is a glamorous term for thoughts you forgot to have in the day.
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The largest part of what we call ‘personality’ is determined by how we’ve opted to defend ourselves against anxiety and sadness”.
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Architects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
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Artistic accounts involve severe abbreviations of what reality will force upon us.
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Only as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.
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Unnatural to expect that learning to be happy should be any easier than, say, learning to play the violin or require any less practice.
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As victims of hurt, we frequently don’t bring up what ails us, because so many wounds look absurd in the light of day.
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The challenge of modern relationships: how to prove more interesting than the other’s smartphone.
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Literature deeply stands opposed to the dominant value system-the one that rewards money and power. Writers are on the other side-they make us sympathetic to ideas and feelings that are of deep importance but can’t afford airtime in a commercialized, status-consciou s, and cynical world.
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Literature is the greatest reality simulator – a machine that puts you through infinitely more situations than you can ever directly witness.
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Those who divorce aren’t necessarily the most unhappy, just those neatly able to believe their misery is caused by one other person.
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