Most of what makes a book ‘good’ is that we are reading it at the right moment for us.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThere are selections so acute that they come to define a place, with the result that we can no longer travel through that landscape without being reminded of what a great artist noticed there.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Most good thinking has its origin in fear.
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Although I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
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Out of the millions of people we live among, most of whom we habitually ignore and are ignored by in turn, there are always a few that hold hostage our capacity for happiness, whom we could recognize by their smell alone and whom we would rather die than be without.
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It wasn’t only fanatics and drunkards who began conversations with strangers in public.
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Because it’s bad enough not getting what you want, but it’s even worse to have an idea of what it is you want and find out at the end of the journey that it isn’t, in fact, what you wanted all along.
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One of the best protections against disappointment is to have a lot going on.
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There is a devilishly direct relationship between the significance of an idea and how nervous we become at the prospect of having to think about it.
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Yet often, they know but just don’t care. So the task of serious journalism isn’t just to lay out truths. It is to make vital truths compelling to a big audience.
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We need objects to remind us of the commitments we’ve made. That carpet from Morocco reminds us of the impulsive, freedom-loving side of ourselves we’re in danger of losing touch with. Beautiful furniture gives us something to live up to. All designed objects are propaganda for a way of life.
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Our disrespect for thinking: someone sitting in a chair, gazing out of a window blankly, always described as ‘doing nothing’.
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Don’t despair: despair suggests you are in total control and know what is coming. You don’t – surrender to events with hope.
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True love is a lack of desire to check one’s smartphone in another’s presence.
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In a secularising world, art has replaced religion as a touchstone of our reverence and devotion.
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The most attractive are not those who allow us to kiss them at once [we soon feel ungrateful] or those who never allow us to kiss them [we soon forget them], but those who coyly lead us between the two extremes.
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I feel that the great challenge of our time is the communication of ideas.
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