If our lives are dominated by a search for happiness, then perhaps few activities reveal as much about the dynamics of this quest – in all its ardour and paradoxes – than our travels.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWhen I see someone like Richard Dawkins, I see my father. I grew up with that. I’m basically the child of Richard Dawkins.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Socrates, on being insulted in the marketplace, asked by a passerby, “Don’t you worry about being called names?” retorted, “Why? Do you think I should resent it if an ass had kicked me?
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Only as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.
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Work is most fulfilling when you’re at the comfortable, exciting edge of not quite knowing what you are doing.
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…if the beginnings of love and amorous politics are equally rosy, then the ends may be equally bloody.
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People who readily accept the need for a gym will resist that their personalities might need some work too.
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When you look at the Moon, you think, ‘I’m really small. What are my problems?’ It sets things into perspective. We should all look at the Moon a bit more often.
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Taking photographs can assuage the itch for possession sparked by the beauty of a place; our anxiety over losing a precious scene can decline with every click of the shutter.
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So many complaints boil down to the belly ache of the fragile, mortal, ignored ego in a vast and indifferent universe.
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The blunt large questions become connected to smaller, apparently esoteric ones.
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Forgiveness requires a sense that bad behaviour is a sign of suffering rather than malice.
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Out of the millions of people we live among, most of whom we habitually ignore and are ignored by in turn, there are always a few that hold hostage our capacity for happiness, whom we could recognize by their smell alone and whom we would rather die than be without.
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In their different ways, art and philosophy help us, in Schopenhauer’s words, to turn pain into knowledge.
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To be shown love is to feel ourselves the object of concern: our presence is noted, our name is registered, our views are listened to, our failings are treated with indulgence and our needs are ministered to. And under such care, we flourish.
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Being content is perhaps no less easy than playing the violin well: and requires no less practice.
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At the heart of every frustration lies a basic structure: the collision of a wish with an unyielding reality.
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