The good parent: someone who doesn’t mind, for a time, being hated by their children.
ALAIN DE BOTTONOne’s doing well if age improves even slightly one’s capacity to hold on to that vital truism: “This too shall pass.
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A ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
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As adults, we try to develop the character traits that would have rescued our parents.
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So many complaints boil down to the belly ache of the fragile, mortal, ignored ego in a vast and indifferent universe.
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Architects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
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When work is not going well, it’s useful to remember that our identities stretch beyond what is on the business card, that we were people long before we became workers – and will continue to be human once we have put our tools down forever.
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The media insists on taking what someone didn’t mean to say as being far closer to the truth than what they did.
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You need a long hard day’s work to reveal the logic of the craving for very bad tv and alcohol.
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Yet often, they know but just don’t care. So the task of serious journalism isn’t just to lay out truths. It is to make vital truths compelling to a big audience.
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Most anger stems from feelings of weakness, sadness and fear: hard to remember when one is at the receiving end of its defiant roar.
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It is not just nature that defies us. Human life is as overwhelming… If we spend time in it [the vast spaces of nature], they may help us to accept more graciously the great, unfathomable events that molest our lives and will inevitably return us to dust.
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The only people we can think of as normal are those we don’t yet know very well.
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Our minds are susceptible to the influence of external voices telling us what we require to be satisfied, voices that may drown out the faint sounds emitted by our souls and distract us from the careful, arduous task of accurately naming our priorities.
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The difference between hope and despair is a different way of telling stories from the same facts.
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A successful work will draw out the features capable of exciting a sense of beauty and interest in the spectator.
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For paranoia about ‘what other people think’ : remember that only some hate, a very few love – and almost all just don’t care.
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