At the heart of every frustration lies a basic structure: the collision of a wish with an unyielding reality.
ALAIN DE BOTTONOne’s doing well if age improves even slightly one’s capacity to hold on to that vital truism: “This too shall pass.
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Man seems merely dust postponed: the sublime as an encounter – pleasurable, intoxicating, even – with human weakness in the face of strength, age and size of the universe.
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What am I supposed to do here? What am I supposed to think?
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The good parent: someone who doesn’t mind, for a time, being hated by their children.
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Architects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
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It is by finding out what something is not that one comes closest to understanding what it is.
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Our responses to the world are crucially moulded by the company we keep, for we temper our curiosity to fit in with the expectations of others.
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Never too late to learn some embarrassingly basic, stupidly obvious things about oneself.
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I feel that the great challenge of our time is the communication of ideas.
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Only by declaring a book completely finished can one start to see how much remains to be done on it.
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It wasn’t only fanatics and drunkards who began conversations with strangers in public.
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A good half of the art of living is resilience.
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I think people want to get married to end their emotional uncertainty. In a way, they want to end powerful feelings, or certainly the negative ones.
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Booksellers are the most valuable destination for the lonely, given the numbers of books that were written because authors couldn’t find anyone to talk to.
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Once I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
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There is real danger of a disconnect between what’s on your business card and who you are deep inside, and it’s not a disconnect that the world is ready to be patient with.
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