The longing for a destiny is no nowhere stronger than in our romantic life. All too often forced to share our bed with those who cannot fathom our soul, can we not be forgiven if we believe ourselves fated to stumble one day upon the man or woman of our dreams.
ALAIN DE BOTTONOne’s doing well if age improves even slightly one’s capacity to hold on to that vital truism: “This too shall pass.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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When work is not going well, it’s useful to remember that our identities stretch beyond what is on the business card, that we were people long before we became workers – and will continue to be human once we have put our tools down forever.
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We keep a special place in our hearts for people who refuse to be impressed by us.
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We may seek a fortune for no greater reason than to secure the respect and attention of people who would otherwise look straight through us.
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Journeys are the midwives of thought. Few places are more conducive to internal conversations than moving planes, ships or trains.
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Yet often, they know but just don’t care. So the task of serious journalism isn’t just to lay out truths. It is to make vital truths compelling to a big audience.
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One rarely falls in love without being as much attracted to what is interestingly wrong with someone as what is objectively healthy.
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Arguments are like eels: however logical, they may slip from the minds weak grasp unless fixed there by imagery and style.
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As an atheist, I think there are lots of things religions get up to which are of value to non-believers – and one of those things is trying to be a bit better than we normally manage to be.
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You need a long hard day’s work to reveal the logic of the craving for very bad tv and alcohol.
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What is fascinating about marriage is why anyone wants to get married.
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Literature is the greatest reality simulator – a machine that puts you through infinitely more situations than you can ever directly witness.
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In their different ways, art and philosophy help us, in Schopenhauer’s words, to turn pain into knowledge.
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The telephone becomes an instrument of torture in the demonic hands of a beloved who doesn’t call.
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We read the weird tales in newspapers to crowd out the even weirder stuff inside us.
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Literature deeply stands opposed to the dominant value system-the one that rewards money and power. Writers are on the other side-they make us sympathetic to ideas and feelings that are of deep importance but can’t afford airtime in a commercialized, status-consciou s, and cynical world.
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