The blunt large questions become connected to smaller, apparently esoteric ones.
ALAIN DE BOTTONTravel agents would be wiser to ask us what we hope to change about our lives rather than simply where we wish to go.
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Literature is the greatest reality simulator – a machine that puts you through infinitely more situations than you can ever directly witness.
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A danger of travel is that we see things at the wrong time, before we have had a chance to build up the necessary receptivity and when new information is therefore as useless and fugitive as necklace beads without a connecting chain.
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The company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.
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Architects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
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Taking photographs can assuage the itch for possession sparked by the beauty of a place; our anxiety over losing a precious scene can decline with every click of the shutter.
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One rarely falls in love without being as much attracted to what is interestingly wrong with someone as what is objectively healthy.
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The media insists on taking what someone didn’t mean to say as being far closer to the truth than what they did.
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At the heart of every frustration lies a basic structure: the collision of a wish with an unyielding reality.
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Yet often, they know but just don’t care. So the task of serious journalism isn’t just to lay out truths. It is to make vital truths compelling to a big audience.
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…if the beginnings of love and amorous politics are equally rosy, then the ends may be equally bloody.
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There’s a whole category of people who miss out by not allowing themselves to be weird enough.
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As victims of hurt, we frequently don’t bring up what ails us, because so many wounds look absurd in the light of day.
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to design means forcing ourselves to unlearn what we believe we already know, patiently to take apart the mechanisms behind our reflexes and to acknowledge the mystery and stupefying complexity of everyday gestures like switching off a light of turning on a tap
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Those who divorce aren’t necessarily the most unhappy, just those neatly able to believe their misery is caused by one other person.
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As we write, so we build: to keep a record of what matters to us.
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