The company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.
ALAIN DE BOTTONTravel agents would be wiser to ask us what we hope to change about our lives rather than simply where we wish to go.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Intuition is unconscious accumulated experience informing judgement in real time.
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The largest part of what we call ‘personality’ is determined by how we’ve opted to defend ourselves against anxiety and sadness”.
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Anyone who isn’t embarrassed of who they were last year probably isn’t learning enough.
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Must being in love always mean being in pain?
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Unhappiness can stem from having only one perspective to play with.
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The very act of drawing an object, however badly, swiftly takes the drawer from a woolly sense of what the object looks like to a precise awareness of its component parts and particularities.
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We should read other people’s books in order to learn what we feel; it is our own thoughts we should be developing, even if it is another writer’s thought that help us to do so.
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A ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
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The materialistic view of happiness of our age starkly revealed in our understanding of the word “luxury.
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If we are inclined to forget how much there is in the world besides that which we anticipate, then works of art are perhaps a little to blame, for in them we find at work the same process of simplification or selection as in the imagination.
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Politics is so difficult, it’s generally only people who aren’t quite up to the task who feel convinced they are.
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We will cease to be angry once we cease to be so hopeful.
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Paying tax should be framed as a glorious civic duty worthy of gratitude – not a punishment for making money.
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We are like an exquisite high-speed aircraft which for lack of a tiny part is left stranded beside the runway, rendered slower than a tractor or bicycle.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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