Unnatural to expect that learning to be happy should be any easier than, say, learning to play the violin or require any less practice.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe flawless object throws into perspective the mediocrity that surrounds it. We are reminded of the way we would wish things always to be and of how incomplete our lives remain.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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There is always the option of being emotionally lazy, that is, of quoting.
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A danger of travel is that we see things at the wrong time, before we have had a chance to build up the necessary receptivity and when new information is therefore as useless and fugitive as necklace beads without a connecting chain.
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There may be significant things to learn about people by looking at what annoys them most.
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To one’s enemies: “I hate myself more than you ever could.
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Every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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A virtuous, ordinary life, striving for wisdom but never far from folly, is achievement enough.
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Most victories are, in the best way, acts of revenge.
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It is by finding out what something is not that one comes closest to understanding what it is.
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A good half of the art of living is resilience.
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Most of our childhood is stored not in photos, but in certain biscuits, lights of day, smells, textures of carpet.
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Only by declaring a book completely finished can one start to see how much remains to be done on it.
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What should worry us is not the number of people that oppose us, but how good their reasons are for doing so.
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Our capacity to draw happiness from aesthetic objects or material goods in fact seems critically dependent on our first satisfying a more important range of emotional or psychological needs, among them the need for understanding, for love, expression and respect.
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The pleasure we derive from journeys is perhaps dependent more on the mindset with which we travel than on the destination we travel to.
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Although I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
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