As an atheist, I think there are lots of things religions get up to which are of value to non-believers – and one of those things is trying to be a bit better than we normally manage to be.
ALAIN DE BOTTONJourneys are the midwives of thought. Few places are more conducive to internal conversations than moving planes, ships or trains.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Don’t despair: despair suggests you are in total control and know what is coming. You don’t – surrender to events with hope.
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As adults, we try to develop the character traits that would have rescued our parents.
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It looks like it’s wasting time, but literature is actually the ultimate time-saver – because it gives us access to a range of emotions and events that it would take you years, decades, millennia to try to experience directly.
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Everyone returns us to a different sense of ourselves, for we become a little of who they think we are.
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We should not feel embarrassed by our difficulties, only by our failure to grow anything beautiful from them.
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I feel that the great challenge of our time is the communication of ideas.
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Forgiveness requires a sense that bad behaviour is a sign of suffering rather than malice.
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Intuition is unconscious accumulated experience informing judgement in real time.
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The problem is if you really believe in a society where those who merit to get to the top, get to the top, you’ll also, by implication … believe in a society where those who deserve to get to the bottom also get to the bottom and stay there.
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The largest part of what we call ‘personality’ is determined by how we’ve opted to defend ourselves against anxiety and sadness”.
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There is a longing for a return to a time without the need for choices, free of the regret at the inevitable loss that all choice (however wonderful) has entailed.
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Not everyone is worth listening to.
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An argument in a couple: 2 people attempting to introduce each other to important truths – by panicked shouting.
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The challenge of modern relationships: how to prove more interesting than the other’s smartphone.
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Taking photographs can assuage the itch for possession sparked by the beauty of a place; our anxiety over losing a precious scene can decline with every click of the shutter.
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