So many complaints boil down to the belly ache of the fragile, mortal, ignored ego in a vast and indifferent universe.
ALAIN DE BOTTONUnhappiness can stem from having only one perspective to play with.
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Do you love me enough that I may be weak with you? Everyone loves strength, but do you love me for my weakness? That is the real test.
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Maturity: knowing where you’re crazy, trying to warn others of the fact and striving to keep yourself under control.
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William James once made an acute point about the relationship between happiness and expectation. He argued that satisfaction with ourselves does not require us to succeed in every endeavour.
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What I want to argue for is not that we should give up on our ideas of success, but that we should make sure that they are our own. We should focus in on our ideas and make sure that we own them, that we’re truly the authors of our own ambitions.
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How do the stems connect to the roots?’ ‘Where is the mist coming from?’ ‘Why does one tree seem darker than another?’ These questions are implicitly asked and answered in the process of sketching.
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I passionately believe that’s it’s not just what you say that counts, it’s also how you say it – that the success of your argument critically depends on your manner of presenting it.
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A ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
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Our greatest furies spring from events which violate our sense of the ground of our existence.
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Arguments are like eels: however logical, they may slip from the minds weak grasp unless fixed there by imagery and style.
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The difference between hope and despair is a different way of telling stories from the same facts.
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We study biology, physics, movements of glaciers… Where are the classes on envy, feeling wronged, despair, bitterness.
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A danger of travel is that we see things at the wrong time, before we have had a chance to build up the necessary receptivity and when new information is therefore as useless and fugitive as necklace beads without a connecting chain.
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Only by declaring a book completely finished can one start to see how much remains to be done on it.
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We should not feel embarrassed by our difficulties, only by our failure to grow anything beautiful from them.
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Getting to the top has an unfortunate tendency to persuade people that the system is OK after all.
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