The best cure for one’s bad tendencies is to see them in action in another person.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe telephone becomes an instrument of torture in the demonic hands of a beloved who doesn’t call.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Bitterness: anger that forgot where it came from.
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Our sadness won’t be of the searing kind but more like a blend of joy and melancholy: joy at the perfection we see before us, melancholy at an awareness of how seldom we are sufficiently blessed to encounter anything of its kind.
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A good half of the art of living is resilience.
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We are like an exquisite high-speed aircraft which for lack of a tiny part is left stranded beside the runway, rendered slower than a tractor or bicycle.
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Only by declaring a book completely finished can one start to see how much remains to be done on it.
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Envy: a confused, tangled guide to one’s own ambitions.
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Differ though we might with Christianity’s view of what precisely our souls need, it is hard to discredit the provocative underlying thesis.
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Work is most fulfilling when you’re at the comfortable, exciting edge of not quite knowing what you are doing.
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Cynics are – beneath it all – only idealists with awkwardly high standards.
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Art holds out the promise of inner wholeness.
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Our capacity to draw happiness from aesthetic objects or material goods in fact seems critically dependent on our first satisfying a more important range of emotional or psychological needs, among them the need for understanding, for love, expression and respect.
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Paying tax should be framed as a glorious civic duty worthy of gratitude – not a punishment for making money.
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Being content is perhaps no less easy than playing the violin well: and requires no less practice.
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We should read other people’s books in order to learn what we feel; it is our own thoughts we should be developing, even if it is another writer’s thought that help us to do so.
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Never too late to learn some embarrassingly basic, stupidly obvious things about oneself.
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