The most attractive are not those who allow us to kiss them at once [we soon feel ungrateful] or those who never allow us to kiss them [we soon forget them], but those who coyly lead us between the two extremes.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe telephone becomes an instrument of torture in the demonic hands of a beloved who doesn’t call.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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It’s hard loving those who don’t much like themselves: “If you’re so great, why would you think I’m so great.
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One kind of good book should leave you asking: how did the author know that about me?
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When I see someone like Richard Dawkins, I see my father. I grew up with that. I’m basically the child of Richard Dawkins.
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Everyone wants a better life: very few of us want to be better people.
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A notorious inability to express emotions makes human beings the only animals capable of suicide.
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There is a longing for a return to a time without the need for choices, free of the regret at the inevitable loss that all choice (however wonderful) has entailed.
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We are like an exquisite high-speed aircraft which for lack of a tiny part is left stranded beside the runway, rendered slower than a tractor or bicycle.
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It was no longer her absence that wounded me, but my growing indifference to it. Forgetting, however calming, was also a reminder of infidelity to what I had at one time held so dear.
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Our sadness won’t be of the searing kind but more like a blend of joy and melancholy: joy at the perfection we see before us, melancholy at an awareness of how seldom we are sufficiently blessed to encounter anything of its kind.
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Most good thinking has its origin in fear.
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We should not feel embarrassed by our difficulties, only by our failure to grow anything beautiful from them.
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The fear of saying something stupid (which stupid people never have) has censored far more good ideas than bad ones.
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It is perhaps when our lives are at their most problematic that we are likely to be most receptive to beautiful things.
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Without sex, we would be dangerously invulnerable. We might believe we were not ridiculous. We wouldn’t know rejection and humiliation so intimately.
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My writing always came out of a very personal place, out of an attempt to stay sane.
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