There is real danger of a disconnect between what’s on your business card and who you are deep inside, and it’s not a disconnect that the world is ready to be patient with.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe telephone becomes an instrument of torture in the demonic hands of a beloved who doesn’t call.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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The flawless object throws into perspective the mediocrity that surrounds it. We are reminded of the way we would wish things always to be and of how incomplete our lives remain.
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A good half of the art of living is resilience.
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Our disrespect for thinking: someone sitting in a chair, gazing out of a window blankly, always described as ‘doing nothing’.
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There’s a whole category of people who miss out by not allowing themselves to be weird enough.
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Those who divorce aren’t necessarily the most unhappy, just those neatly able to believe their misery is caused by one other person.
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Work finally begins when the fear of doing nothing exceeds the fear of doing it badly.
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What kills us isn’t one big thing, but thousands of tiny obligations we can’t turn down for fear of disappointing others.
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Most of our childhood is stored not in photos, but in certain biscuits, lights of day, smells, textures of carpet.
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A ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
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You need a long hard day’s work to reveal the logic of the craving for very bad tv and alcohol.
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Bad art might be defined as a series of bad choices about what to show and what to leave out.
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Intuition is unconscious accumulated experience informing judgement in real time.
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It’s hard loving those who don’t much like themselves: “If you’re so great, why would you think I’m so great.
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The best cure for one’s bad tendencies is to see them in action in another person.
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Every adult life could be said to be defined by two great love stories: the story of our quest for sexual love and the story of our quest for love from the world.
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