The more closely we analyze what we consider ‘sexy,’ the more clearly we will understand that eroticism is the feeling of excitement we experience at finding another human being who shares our values and our sense of the meaning of existence.
ALAIN DE BOTTONArt holds out the promise of inner wholeness.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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True love is a lack of desire to check one’s smartphone in another’s presence.
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You normally have to be bashed about a bit by life to see the point of daffodils, sunsets and uneventful nice days.
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He did not mean to depress us, rather to free us from expectations which inspire bitterness. It is consoling, when love has let us down, to hear that happiness was never part of the plan.
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Getting to the top has an unfortunate tendency to persuade people that the system is OK after all.
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Differ though we might with Christianity’s view of what precisely our souls need, it is hard to discredit the provocative underlying thesis.
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I passionately believe that’s it’s not just what you say that counts, it’s also how you say it – that the success of your argument critically depends on your manner of presenting it.
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Perhaps it is true that we do not really exist until there is someone there to see us existing, we cannot properly speak until there is someone who can understand what we are saying in essence, we are not wholly alive until we are loved.
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Cynics are – beneath it all – only idealists with awkwardly high standards.
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Once I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
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Forcing people to eat together is an effective way to promote tolerance.
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Most anger stems from feelings of weakness, sadness and fear: hard to remember when one is at the receiving end of its defiant roar.
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Not everyone is worth listening to.
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The challenge for a human now is to be more interesting to another than his or her smartphone.
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Art cannot single-handedly create enthusiasm… it merely contributes to enthusiasm and guides us to be more conscious of feelings that we might previously have experienced only tentatively or hurriedly.
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Being content is perhaps no less easy than playing the violin well: and requires no less practice.
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