Though it may feel otherwise, enjoying life is no more dangerous than apprehending it with continuous anxiety and gloom.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWe envy only those whom we feel ourselves to be like; we envy only members of our reference group. There are few successes more unendurable than those of our close friends.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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When you look at the Moon, you think, ‘I’m really small. What are my problems?’ It sets things into perspective. We should all look at the Moon a bit more often.
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The media insists on taking what someone didn’t mean to say as being far closer to the truth than what they did.
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Most of our childhood is stored not in photos, but in certain biscuits, lights of day, smells, textures of carpet.
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It’s hard loving those who don’t much like themselves: “If you’re so great, why would you think I’m so great.
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Art cannot single-handedly create enthusiasm… it merely contributes to enthusiasm and guides us to be more conscious of feelings that we might previously have experienced only tentatively or hurriedly.
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How generous was it to offer gifts to people one knew would never accept them?
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When Proust urges us to evaluate the world properly, he repeatedly reminds us of the value of modest scenes.
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Most of what makes a book ‘good’ is that we are reading it at the right moment for us.
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Because the rhythm of conversation makes no allowance for dead periods, because the presence of others calls for continuous responses, we are left to regret the inanity of what we say, and the missed opportunity of what we do not.
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We are all more intelligent than we are capable, and awareness of the insanity of love has never saved anyone from the disease.
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We may seek a fortune for no greater reason than to secure the respect and attention of people who would otherwise look straight through us.
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Happiness is impossible for longer than 15 minutes. We are the descendants of creatures who, above all else, worried.
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In their different ways, art and philosophy help us, in Schopenhauer’s words, to turn pain into knowledge.
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We will cease to be angry once we cease to be so hopeful.
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The company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.
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