Most of what makes a book ‘good’ is that we are reading it at the right moment for us.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWe envy only those whom we feel ourselves to be like; we envy only members of our reference group. There are few successes more unendurable than those of our close friends.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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One kind of good book should leave you asking: how did the author know that about me?
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Perhaps it is true that we do not really exist until there is someone there to see us existing, we cannot properly speak until there is someone who can understand what we are saying in essence, we are not wholly alive until we are loved.
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Our sadness won’t be of the searing kind but more like a blend of joy and melancholy: joy at the perfection we see before us, melancholy at an awareness of how seldom we are sufficiently blessed to encounter anything of its kind.
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We read the weird tales in newspapers to crowd out the even weirder stuff inside us.
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I went to church and couldn’t swallow it. The music was nice but I don’t belong there.
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Curiosity might be pictured as being made up of chains of small questions extending outwards, sometimes over huge distances, from a central hub composed of a few blunt, large questions.
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How generous was it to offer gifts to people one knew would never accept them?
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In the works of Lucretius, we find two reasons why we shouldn’t worry about death. If you have had a successful life, Lucretius tell us, there’s no reason to mind its end. And, if you haven’t had a good time, “Why do you seek to add more years, which would also pass but ill?”
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What should worry us is not the number of people that oppose us, but how good their reasons are for doing so.
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We each appear to hold within ourselves a range of divergent views as to our native qualities.. And amid such uncertainty, we typically turn to the wider world to settle the question of our significance.. we seem beholden to affections of others to endure ourselves.
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We need a home in the psychological sense as much as we need one in the physical: to compensate for a vulnerability.
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The arrogance that says analysing the relationship between reasons and causes is more important than writing a philosophy of shyness or sadness or friendship drives me nuts. I can’t accept that.
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I feel that the great challenge of our time is the communication of ideas.
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We may seek a fortune for no greater reason than to secure the respect and attention of people who would otherwise look straight through us.
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We should not feel embarrassed by our difficulties, only by our failure to grow anything beautiful from them.
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