One of the best protections against disappointment is to have a lot going on.
ALAIN DE BOTTONIt’s as though either you accept [religious] doctrine and then you can have all the nice stuff, or you reject the doctrine and you’re living in some kind of spiritual wasteland under the guidance of CNN and Walmart.
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There is always the option of being emotionally lazy, that is, of quoting.
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A virtuous, ordinary life, striving for wisdom but never far from folly, is achievement enough.
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We are like an exquisite high-speed aircraft which for lack of a tiny part is left stranded beside the runway, rendered slower than a tractor or bicycle.
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As an atheist, I think there are lots of things religions get up to which are of value to non-believers – and one of those things is trying to be a bit better than we normally manage to be.
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There is no such thing as work-life balance. Everything worth fighting for unbalances your life.
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In their different ways, art and philosophy help us, in Schopenhauer’s words, to turn pain into knowledge.
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Those who divorce aren’t necessarily the most unhappy, just those neatly able to believe their misery is caused by one other person.
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Our responses to the world are crucially moulded by the company we keep, for we temper our curiosity to fit in with the expectations of others.
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A good half of the art of living is resilience.
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The attentions of others matter to us because we are afflicted by a congenital uncertainty as to our own value, as a result of which affliction we tend to allow others’ appraisals to play a determining role in how we see ourselves. Our sense of identity is held captive by the judgements of those we live among.
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It is by finding out what something is not that one comes closest to understanding what it is.
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In a secularising world, art has replaced religion as a touchstone of our reverence and devotion.
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Our capacity to draw happiness from aesthetic objects or material goods in fact seems critically dependent on our first satisfying a more important range of emotional or psychological needs, among them the need for understanding, for love, expression and respect.
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Every realistic picture represents a choice as to which features of reality should be given prominence; no painting ever captures the whole.
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Our disrespect for thinking: someone sitting in a chair, gazing out of a window blankly, always described as ‘doing nothing’.
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