People who readily accept the need for a gym will resist that their personalities might need some work too.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThough it may feel otherwise, enjoying life is no more dangerous than apprehending it with continuous anxiety and gloom.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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It is striking how much more seriously we are likely to be taken after we have been dead a few centuries.
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The moment we cry in a film is not when things are sad but when they turn out to be more beautiful than we expected them to be.
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Dreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
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Rage is caused by a conviction, almost comic in its optimistic origins (however tragic in its effects), that a given frustration has not been written into the contract of life.
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Only by declaring a book completely finished can one start to see how much remains to be done on it.
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One of the best protections against disappointment is to have a lot going on.
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We keep a special place in our hearts for people who refuse to be impressed by us.
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It is not just nature that defies us. Human life is as overwhelming… If we spend time in it [the vast spaces of nature], they may help us to accept more graciously the great, unfathomable events that molest our lives and will inevitably return us to dust.
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The longing for destiny is nowhere stronger than in our romantic life.
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We are all more intelligent than we are capable, and awareness of the insanity of love has never saved anyone from the disease.
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If our lives are dominated by a search for happiness, then perhaps few activities reveal as much about the dynamics of this quest – in all its ardour and paradoxes – than our travels.
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Being content is perhaps no less easy than playing the violin well: and requires no less practice.
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In the oasis complex, the thirsty man images he sees water, palm trees, and shade not because he has evidence for the belief, but because he has a need for it. Desperate needs bring about a hallucination of their solution: thirst hallucinates water.
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Never too late to learn some embarrassingly basic, stupidly obvious things about oneself.
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He did not mean to depress us, rather to free us from expectations which inspire bitterness. It is consoling, when love has let us down, to hear that happiness was never part of the plan.
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