One’s doing well if age improves even slightly one’s capacity to hold on to that vital truism: “This too shall pass.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThough it may feel otherwise, enjoying life is no more dangerous than apprehending it with continuous anxiety and gloom.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Most victories are, in the best way, acts of revenge.
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Taking photographs can assuage the itch for possession sparked by the beauty of a place; our anxiety over losing a precious scene can decline with every click of the shutter.
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I passionately believe that’s it’s not just what you say that counts, it’s also how you say it – that the success of your argument critically depends on your manner of presenting it.
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Getting to the top has an unfortunate tendency to persuade people that the system is OK after all.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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Most of our childhood is stored not in photos, but in certain biscuits, lights of day, smells, textures of carpet.
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The company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.
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As victims of hurt, we frequently don’t bring up what ails us, because so many wounds look absurd in the light of day.
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Art cannot single-handedly create enthusiasm… it merely contributes to enthusiasm and guides us to be more conscious of feelings that we might previously have experienced only tentatively or hurriedly.
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Must being in love always mean being in pain?
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In the oasis complex, the thirsty man images he sees water, palm trees, and shade not because he has evidence for the belief, but because he has a need for it. Desperate needs bring about a hallucination of their solution: thirst hallucinates water.
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The more closely we analyze what we consider ‘sexy,’ the more clearly we will understand that eroticism is the feeling of excitement we experience at finding another human being who shares our values and our sense of the meaning of existence.
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I went to church and couldn’t swallow it. The music was nice but I don’t belong there.
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It is striking how much more seriously we are likely to be taken after we have been dead a few centuries.
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For paranoia about ‘what other people think’ : remember that only some hate, a very few love – and almost all just don’t care.
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