Envy: a confused, tangled guide to one’s own ambitions.
ALAIN DE BOTTONArtistic accounts involve severe abbreviations of what reality will force upon us.
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How generous was it to offer gifts to people one knew would never accept them?
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The dream of the news is that it makes us care about other people and situations. But we cannot identify with people to whom we haven’t been introduced. Humans will only respond to art, to people who are skilled in making you care.
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A good half of the art of living is resilience.
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He did not mean to depress us, rather to free us from expectations which inspire bitterness. It is consoling, when love has let us down, to hear that happiness was never part of the plan.
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What am I supposed to do here? What am I supposed to think?
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The happiness that may emerge from taking a second look is central to Proust’s therapeutic conception. It reveals the extent to which our dissatisfactions may be the result of failing to look properly at our lives rather than the result of anything inherently deficient about them.
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One of the better guarantors of ending up in a good relationship: an advanced capacity to be alone.
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My writing always came out of a very personal place, out of an attempt to stay sane.
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Anyone who isn’t embarrassed of who they were last year probably isn’t learning enough.
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Happiness is impossible for longer than 15 minutes. We are the descendants of creatures who, above all else, worried.
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Most victories are, in the best way, acts of revenge.
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Booksellers are the most valuable destination for the lonely, given the numbers of books that were written because authors couldn’t find anyone to talk to.
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to design means forcing ourselves to unlearn what we believe we already know, patiently to take apart the mechanisms behind our reflexes and to acknowledge the mystery and stupefying complexity of everyday gestures like switching off a light of turning on a tap
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Everyone returns us to a different sense of ourselves, for we become a little of who they think we are.
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The challenge for a human now is to be more interesting to another than his or her smartphone.
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