We need a refuge to shore up our states of mind, because so much of the world is opposed to our allegiances. We need our rooms to align us to desirable versions of ourselves and to keep alive the important, evanescent sides of us.
ALAIN DE BOTTONArtistic accounts involve severe abbreviations of what reality will force upon us.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Most good thinking has its origin in fear.
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Insomnia is a glamorous term for thoughts you forgot to have in the day.
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Don’t despair: despair suggests you are in total control and know what is coming. You don’t – surrender to events with hope.
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Only as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.
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As victims of hurt, we frequently don’t bring up what ails us, because so many wounds look absurd in the light of day.
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The very act of drawing an object, however badly, swiftly takes the drawer from a woolly sense of what the object looks like to a precise awareness of its component parts and particularities.
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It is in dialogue with pain that many beautiful things acquire their value. Acquaintance with grief turns out to be one of the more unusual prerequisites of architectural appreciation. We might, quite aside from all other requirements, need to be a little sad before buildings can properly touch us.
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Curiosity takes ignorance seriously – and is confident enough to admit when it’s in the dark. It is aware of not knowing. And then it sets out to do something about it.
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I am in general a very pessimistic person with an optimistic, day to day take on things. The bare facts of life are utterly terrifying. And yet, one can laugh. Indeed, one has to laugh precisely because of the darkness: the nervous laughter of the trenches.
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Getting to the top has an unfortunate tendency to persuade people that the system is OK after all.
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One rarely falls in love without being as much attracted to what is interestingly wrong with someone as what is objectively healthy.
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People only get really interesting when they start to rattle the bars of their cages.
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The mind does most of its best thinking when we aren’t there. The answers are there in the morning.
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The moment we cry in a film is not when things are sad but when they turn out to be more beautiful than we expected them to be.
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At the heart of every frustration lies a basic structure: the collision of a wish with an unyielding reality.
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