A danger of travel is that we see things at the wrong time, before we have had a chance to build up the necessary receptivity and when new information is therefore as useless and fugitive as necklace beads without a connecting chain.
ALAIN DE BOTTONArtistic accounts involve severe abbreviations of what reality will force upon us.
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Out of the millions of people we live among, most of whom we habitually ignore and are ignored by in turn, there are always a few that hold hostage our capacity for happiness, whom we could recognize by their smell alone and whom we would rather die than be without.
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Cynics are – beneath it all – only idealists with awkwardly high standards.
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These inventors were elevating the formulation of entrepreneurial ideas to the status of a visionary activity. Though forced to justify their efforts in the pragmatic language of venture capital, they were at heart utopian thinkers intent on transforming the world.
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Journeys are the midwives of thought. Few places are more conducive to internal conversations than moving planes, ships or trains.
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Which seems no less relevant in the secular realm than in the religious one-that we have within us a precious, childlike, vulnerable core which we should nourish and nurture on its turbulent journey through life.
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People only get really interesting when they start to rattle the bars of their cages.
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A notorious inability to express emotions makes human beings the only animals capable of suicide.
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The happiness that may emerge from taking a second look is central to Proust’s therapeutic conception. It reveals the extent to which our dissatisfactions may be the result of failing to look properly at our lives rather than the result of anything inherently deficient about them.
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Our jobs make relentless calls on a narrow band of our faculties, reducing our chances of achieving rounded personalities and leaving us to suspect (often in the gathering darkness of a Sunday evening) that much of who we are, or could be, has gone unexplored.
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Writing isn’t a career choice. It’s self-medication that over time precipitates the madness it was meant to ward off.
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An argument in a couple: 2 people attempting to introduce each other to important truths – by panicked shouting.
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Most victories are, in the best way, acts of revenge.
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I learnt to stop fantasising about the perfect job or the perfect relationship because that can actually be an excuse for not living.
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What is a snob? A snob is anybody who takes a small part of you and uses that to come to a complete vision of who you are. That is snobbery.
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Every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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