Literature is the greatest reality simulator – a machine that puts you through infinitely more situations than you can ever directly witness.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWe should not feel embarrassed by our difficulties, only by our failure to grow anything beautiful from them.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Man seems merely dust postponed: the sublime as an encounter – pleasurable, intoxicating, even – with human weakness in the face of strength, age and size of the universe.
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My writing always came out of a very personal place, out of an attempt to stay sane.
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To be shown love is to feel ourselves the object of concern: our presence is noted, our name is registered, our views are listened to, our failings are treated with indulgence and our needs are ministered to. And under such care, we flourish.
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Our greatest furies spring from events which violate our sense of the ground of our existence.
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The telephone becomes an instrument of torture in the demonic hands of a beloved who doesn’t call.
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An argument in a couple: 2 people attempting to introduce each other to important truths – by panicked shouting.
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For paranoia about ‘what other people think’ : remember that only some hate, a very few love – and almost all just don’t care.
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The largest part of what we call ‘personality’ is determined by how we’ve opted to defend ourselves against anxiety and sadness”.
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Out of the millions of people we live among, most of whom we habitually ignore and are ignored by in turn, there are always a few that hold hostage our capacity for happiness, whom we could recognize by their smell alone and whom we would rather die than be without.
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What kills us isn’t one big thing, but thousands of tiny obligations we can’t turn down for fear of disappointing others.
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Not being understood may be taken as a sign that there is much in one to understand.
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Literature deserves its prestige for one reason above all others – because it’s a tool to help us live and die with a little bit more wisdom, goodness, and sanity.
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Reputation matters so much only because people so seldom think for themselves.
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Mental health: having enough safe places in your mind for your thoughts to settle.
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Insomnia is a glamorous term for thoughts you forgot to have in the day.
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