How do the stems connect to the roots?’ ‘Where is the mist coming from?’ ‘Why does one tree seem darker than another?’ These questions are implicitly asked and answered in the process of sketching.
ALAIN DE BOTTONEndeavoring to purchase something we think beautiful may in fact be the most unimaginative way of dealing with the longing it excites in us, just as trying to sleep with someone may be the bluntest response to a feeling of love.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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I learnt to stop fantasising about the perfect job or the perfect relationship because that can actually be an excuse for not living.
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Reputation matters so much only because people so seldom think for themselves.
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What should worry us is not the number of people that oppose us, but how good their reasons are for doing so.
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You need a long hard day’s work to reveal the logic of the craving for very bad tv and alcohol.
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One of our major flaws, and causes of unhappiness, is that we find it hard to take note of appreciate and be grateful for what is always around us. We suffer because we lose sight of the value of what is before us and yearn, often unfairly, for the imagined attraction elsewhere.
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Happiness is impossible for longer than 15 minutes. We are the descendants of creatures who, above all else, worried.
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Literature deserves its prestige for one reason above all others – because it’s a tool to help us live and die with a little bit more wisdom, goodness, and sanity.
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Every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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A virtuous, ordinary life, striving for wisdom but never far from folly, is achievement enough.
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Intimacy is the capacity to be rather weird with someone – and finding that that’s ok with them.
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There is a devilishly direct relationship between the significance of an idea and how nervous we become at the prospect of having to think about it.
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An argument in a couple: 2 people attempting to introduce each other to important truths – by panicked shouting.
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Must being in love always mean being in pain?
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Being content is perhaps no less easy than playing the violin well: and requires no less practice.
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The activities of drawing, eating and drinking, all involve assimilations by the self of desirable elements from the world, a transfer of goodness from without to within.
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