There is a longing for a return to a time without the need for choices, free of the regret at the inevitable loss that all choice (however wonderful) has entailed.
ALAIN DE BOTTONOur minds are susceptible to the influence of external voices telling us what we require to be satisfied, voices that may drown out the faint sounds emitted by our souls and distract us from the careful, arduous task of accurately naming our priorities.
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Every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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Only by declaring a book completely finished can one start to see how much remains to be done on it.
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Although I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
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The dream of the news is that it makes us care about other people and situations. But we cannot identify with people to whom we haven’t been introduced. Humans will only respond to art, to people who are skilled in making you care.
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So many complaints boil down to the belly ache of the fragile, mortal, ignored ego in a vast and indifferent universe.
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Must being in love always mean being in pain?
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If one felt successful, there’d be so little incentive to be successful.
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The activities of drawing, eating and drinking, all involve assimilations by the self of desirable elements from the world, a transfer of goodness from without to within.
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We are like an exquisite high-speed aircraft which for lack of a tiny part is left stranded beside the runway, rendered slower than a tractor or bicycle.
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The difference between hope and despair is a different way of telling stories from the same facts.
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The longing for a destiny is no nowhere stronger than in our romantic life. All too often forced to share our bed with those who cannot fathom our soul, can we not be forgiven if we believe ourselves fated to stumble one day upon the man or woman of our dreams.
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Endeavoring to purchase something we think beautiful may in fact be the most unimaginative way of dealing with the longing it excites in us, just as trying to sleep with someone may be the bluntest response to a feeling of love.
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The good parent: someone who doesn’t mind, for a time, being hated by their children.
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Politics is so difficult, it’s generally only people who aren’t quite up to the task who feel convinced they are.
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The problem isn’t so much finding good ideas (there is no shortage) as embedding the ones we have into everyday practice.
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