In the gap between who we wish one day to be and who we are at present, must come pain, anxiety, envy and humiliation.
ALAIN DE BOTTONOur minds are susceptible to the influence of external voices telling us what we require to be satisfied, voices that may drown out the faint sounds emitted by our souls and distract us from the careful, arduous task of accurately naming our priorities.
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Wealth is not an absolute. It is relative to desire. Every time we yearn for something we cannot afford, we grow poorer, whatever our resources. And every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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We should read other people’s books in order to learn what we feel; it is our own thoughts we should be developing, even if it is another writer’s thought that help us to do so.
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Our jobs make relentless calls on a narrow band of our faculties, reducing our chances of achieving rounded personalities and leaving us to suspect (often in the gathering darkness of a Sunday evening) that much of who we are, or could be, has gone unexplored.
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People only get really interesting when they start to rattle the bars of their cages.
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Social media has lots of benefits, but compared to Christianity, it tends to group people by interests. Religion puts you with people who have nothing in common except that you’re human.
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We are all more intelligent than we are capable, and awareness of the insanity of love has never saved anyone from the disease.
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The moment we cry in a film is not when things are sad but when they turn out to be more beautiful than we expected them to be.
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Arguments are like eels: however logical, they may slip from the minds weak grasp unless fixed there by imagery and style.
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My writing always came out of a very personal place, out of an attempt to stay sane.
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We don’t really learn anything properly until there is a problem, until we are in pain, until something fails to go as we had hoped … We suffer, therefore we think.
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When Proust urges us to evaluate the world properly, he repeatedly reminds us of the value of modest scenes.
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We will cease to be angry once we cease to be so hopeful.
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What am I supposed to do here? What am I supposed to think?
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Happiness is impossible for longer than 15 minutes. We are the descendants of creatures who, above all else, worried.
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The only people we can think of as normal are those we don’t yet know very well.
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