Rather than employing it as a supplement to active, conscious seeing, they used the medium as a substitute, paying less attention to the world than they had done previously, taking it on faith that photography automatically assured them possession of it.
ALAIN DE BOTTONOur disrespect for thinking: someone sitting in a chair, gazing out of a window blankly, always described as ‘doing nothing’.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Our minds are susceptible to the influence of external voices telling us what we require to be satisfied, voices that may drown out the faint sounds emitted by our souls and distract us from the careful, arduous task of accurately naming our priorities.
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In the works of Lucretius, we find two reasons why we shouldn’t worry about death. If you have had a successful life, Lucretius tell us, there’s no reason to mind its end. And, if you haven’t had a good time, “Why do you seek to add more years, which would also pass but ill?”
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Everyone wants a better life: very few of us want to be better people.
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In the gap between who we wish one day to be and who we are at present, must come pain, anxiety, envy and humiliation.
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To be shown love is to feel ourselves the object of concern: our presence is noted, our name is registered, our views are listened to, our failings are treated with indulgence and our needs are ministered to. And under such care, we flourish.
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The blunt large questions become connected to smaller, apparently esoteric ones.
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The company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.
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After 40 (old age for most of man’s history), one should strive to be more or less packed and ready to go were the end call to come.
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A danger of travel is that we see things at the wrong time, before we have had a chance to build up the necessary receptivity and when new information is therefore as useless and fugitive as necklace beads without a connecting chain.
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Good sex isn’t just fun, it keeps us sane and happy. Having sex with someone makes us feel wanted, alive and potent.
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Maturity: knowing where you’re crazy, trying to warn others of the fact and striving to keep yourself under control.
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The mind does most of its best thinking when we aren’t there. The answers are there in the morning.
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Not everyone is worth listening to.
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It’s hard loving those who don’t much like themselves: “If you’re so great, why would you think I’m so great.
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Journeys are the midwives of thought. Few places are more conducive to internal conversations than moving planes, ships or trains.
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