We are presented with an unpleasant choice between either committing to peculiar concepts about immaterial deities or letting go entirely of a host of consoling, subtle or just charming rituals for which we struggle to find equivalents in secular society.
ALAIN DE BOTTONOur disrespect for thinking: someone sitting in a chair, gazing out of a window blankly, always described as ‘doing nothing’.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Yet often, they know but just don’t care. So the task of serious journalism isn’t just to lay out truths. It is to make vital truths compelling to a big audience.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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As adults, we try to develop the character traits that would have rescued our parents.
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What I want to argue for is not that we should give up on our ideas of success, but that we should make sure that they are our own. We should focus in on our ideas and make sure that we own them, that we’re truly the authors of our own ambitions.
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In the works of Lucretius, we find two reasons why we shouldn’t worry about death. If you have had a successful life, Lucretius tell us, there’s no reason to mind its end. And, if you haven’t had a good time, “Why do you seek to add more years, which would also pass but ill?”
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Most victories are, in the best way, acts of revenge.
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The only people we can think of as normal are those we don’t yet know very well.
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Without sex, we would be dangerously invulnerable. We might believe we were not ridiculous. We wouldn’t know rejection and humiliation so intimately.
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Must being in love always mean being in pain?
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Getting to the top has an unfortunate tendency to persuade people that the system is OK after all.
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Serious journalists often imagine society is adrift because people don’t know certain things.
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If one felt successful, there’d be so little incentive to be successful.
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We read the weird tales in newspapers to crowd out the even weirder stuff inside us.
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A successful work will draw out the features capable of exciting a sense of beauty and interest in the spectator.
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Memory is… similar to anticipation: an instrument of simplification and selection.
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