It was no longer her absence that wounded me, but my growing indifference to it. Forgetting, however calming, was also a reminder of infidelity to what I had at one time held so dear.
ALAIN DE BOTTONOur disrespect for thinking: someone sitting in a chair, gazing out of a window blankly, always described as ‘doing nothing’.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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I went to church and couldn’t swallow it. The music was nice but I don’t belong there.
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Forcing people to eat together is an effective way to promote tolerance.
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The dream of the news is that it makes us care about other people and situations. But we cannot identify with people to whom we haven’t been introduced. Humans will only respond to art, to people who are skilled in making you care.
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We are all more intelligent than we are capable, and awareness of the insanity of love has never saved anyone from the disease.
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We need a home in the psychological sense as much as we need one in the physical: to compensate for a vulnerability.
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When work is not going well, it’s useful to remember that our identities stretch beyond what is on the business card, that we were people long before we became workers – and will continue to be human once we have put our tools down forever.
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Not being understood may be taken as a sign that there is much in one to understand.
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Paying tax should be framed as a glorious civic duty worthy of gratitude – not a punishment for making money.
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We need a refuge to shore up our states of mind, because so much of the world is opposed to our allegiances. We need our rooms to align us to desirable versions of ourselves and to keep alive the important, evanescent sides of us.
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When Proust urges us to evaluate the world properly, he repeatedly reminds us of the value of modest scenes.
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People only get really interesting when they start to rattle the bars of their cages.
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These inventors were elevating the formulation of entrepreneurial ideas to the status of a visionary activity. Though forced to justify their efforts in the pragmatic language of venture capital, they were at heart utopian thinkers intent on transforming the world.
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There is real danger of a disconnect between what’s on your business card and who you are deep inside, and it’s not a disconnect that the world is ready to be patient with.
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The greatest works of art speak to us without knowing us.
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Perhaps it is true that we do not really exist until there is someone there to see us existing, we cannot properly speak until there is someone who can understand what we are saying in essence, we are not wholly alive until we are loved.
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