We often lose our tempers not with those who are actually to blame; just with those who love us enough to forgive us our foul moods.
ALAIN DE BOTTONMost victories are, in the best way, acts of revenge.
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People only get really interesting when they start to rattle the bars of their cages.
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In a secularising world, art has replaced religion as a touchstone of our reverence and devotion.
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It was no longer her absence that wounded me, but my growing indifference to it. Forgetting, however calming, was also a reminder of infidelity to what I had at one time held so dear.
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What kills us isn’t one big thing, but thousands of tiny obligations we can’t turn down for fear of disappointing others.
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There are selections so acute that they come to define a place, with the result that we can no longer travel through that landscape without being reminded of what a great artist noticed there.
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The materialistic view of happiness of our age starkly revealed in our understanding of the word “luxury.
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Every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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We need a home in the psychological sense as much as we need one in the physical: to compensate for a vulnerability.
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Bad art might be defined as a series of bad choices about what to show and what to leave out.
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We each appear to hold within ourselves a range of divergent views as to our native qualities.. And amid such uncertainty, we typically turn to the wider world to settle the question of our significance.. we seem beholden to affections of others to endure ourselves.
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…if the beginnings of love and amorous politics are equally rosy, then the ends may be equally bloody.
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He did not mean to depress us, rather to free us from expectations which inspire bitterness. It is consoling, when love has let us down, to hear that happiness was never part of the plan.
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It is by finding out what something is not that one comes closest to understanding what it is.
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It’s as though either you accept [religious] doctrine and then you can have all the nice stuff, or you reject the doctrine and you’re living in some kind of spiritual wasteland under the guidance of CNN and Walmart.
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Rather than employing it as a supplement to active, conscious seeing, they used the medium as a substitute, paying less attention to the world than they had done previously, taking it on faith that photography automatically assured them possession of it.
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