Because it’s bad enough not getting what you want, but it’s even worse to have an idea of what it is you want and find out at the end of the journey that it isn’t, in fact, what you wanted all along.
ALAIN DE BOTTONMost victories are, in the best way, acts of revenge.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Forcing people to eat together is an effective way to promote tolerance.
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It’s as though either you accept [religious] doctrine and then you can have all the nice stuff, or you reject the doctrine and you’re living in some kind of spiritual wasteland under the guidance of CNN and Walmart.
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Our disrespect for thinking: someone sitting in a chair, gazing out of a window blankly, always described as ‘doing nothing’.
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Envy: a confused, tangled guide to one’s own ambitions.
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As we write, so we build: to keep a record of what matters to us.
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Most of us still caged within careers chosen for us by our not entirely worldly 18-22 year old selves.
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Travel agents would be wiser to ask us what we hope to change about our lives rather than simply where we wish to go.
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It wasn’t only fanatics and drunkards who began conversations with strangers in public.
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to design means forcing ourselves to unlearn what we believe we already know, patiently to take apart the mechanisms behind our reflexes and to acknowledge the mystery and stupefying complexity of everyday gestures like switching off a light of turning on a tap
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Which seems no less relevant in the secular realm than in the religious one-that we have within us a precious, childlike, vulnerable core which we should nourish and nurture on its turbulent journey through life.
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There’s a whole category of people who miss out by not allowing themselves to be weird enough.
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Only by declaring a book completely finished can one start to see how much remains to be done on it.
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We are not always humiliated by failing; we are humiliated only if we first invest our pride and sense of worth in a given achievement and then do not reach it.
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Anyone who isn’t embarrassed of who they were last year probably isn’t learning enough.
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One’s doing well if age improves even slightly one’s capacity to hold on to that vital truism: “This too shall pass.
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