We are not always humiliated by failing; we are humiliated only if we first invest our pride and sense of worth in a given achievement and then do not reach it.
ALAIN DE BOTTONMost victories are, in the best way, acts of revenge.
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Philosophy had supplied Socrates with convictions in which he had been able to have rational, as opposed to hysterical, confidence when faced with disapproval.
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The fear of saying something stupid (which stupid people never have) has censored far more good ideas than bad ones.
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Artistic accounts involve severe abbreviations of what reality will force upon us.
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I feel that the great challenge of our time is the communication of ideas.
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The moment we cry in a film is not when things are sad but when they turn out to be more beautiful than we expected them to be.
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Architects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
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Art holds out the promise of inner wholeness.
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to design means forcing ourselves to unlearn what we believe we already know, patiently to take apart the mechanisms behind our reflexes and to acknowledge the mystery and stupefying complexity of everyday gestures like switching off a light of turning on a tap
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The longing for destiny is nowhere stronger than in our romantic life.
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The pleasure we derive from journeys is perhaps dependent more on the mindset with which we travel than on the destination we travel to.
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We keep a special place in our hearts for people who refuse to be impressed by us.
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Memory is… similar to anticipation: an instrument of simplification and selection.
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In the gap between who we wish one day to be and who we are at present, must come pain, anxiety, envy and humiliation.
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It is perhaps sad books that best console us when we are sad.
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Travel agents would be wiser to ask us what we hope to change about our lives rather than simply where we wish to go.
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