Our disrespect for thinking: someone sitting in a chair, gazing out of a window blankly, always described as ‘doing nothing’.
ALAIN DE BOTTONMost victories are, in the best way, acts of revenge.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Our sadness won’t be of the searing kind but more like a blend of joy and melancholy: joy at the perfection we see before us, melancholy at an awareness of how seldom we are sufficiently blessed to encounter anything of its kind.
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If one felt successful, there’d be so little incentive to be successful.
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Maturity: knowing where you’re crazy, trying to warn others of the fact and striving to keep yourself under control.
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There is a devilishly direct relationship between the significance of an idea and how nervous we become at the prospect of having to think about it.
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Insomnia is a glamorous term for thoughts you forgot to have in the day.
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Writing isn’t a career choice. It’s self-medication that over time precipitates the madness it was meant to ward off.
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Without sex, we would be dangerously invulnerable. We might believe we were not ridiculous. We wouldn’t know rejection and humiliation so intimately.
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The happiness that may emerge from taking a second look is central to Proust’s therapeutic conception. It reveals the extent to which our dissatisfactions may be the result of failing to look properly at our lives rather than the result of anything inherently deficient about them.
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The pleasure we derive from journeys is perhaps dependent more on the mindset with which we travel than on the destination we travel to.
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Most of us still caged within careers chosen for us by our not entirely worldly 18-22 year old selves.
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So many complaints boil down to the belly ache of the fragile, mortal, ignored ego in a vast and indifferent universe.
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Booksellers are the most valuable destination for the lonely, given the numbers of books that were written because authors couldn’t find anyone to talk to.
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An argument in a couple: 2 people attempting to introduce each other to important truths – by panicked shouting.
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Everyone returns us to a different sense of ourselves, for we become a little of who they think we are.
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It wasn’t only fanatics and drunkards who began conversations with strangers in public.
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