One rarely falls in love without being as much attracted to what is interestingly wrong with someone as what is objectively healthy.
ALAIN DE BOTTONMost victories are, in the best way, acts of revenge.
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One kind of good book should leave you asking: how did the author know that about me?
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Unhappiness can stem from having only one perspective to play with.
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In their different ways, art and philosophy help us, in Schopenhauer’s words, to turn pain into knowledge.
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For paranoia about ‘what other people think’ : remember that only some hate, a very few love – and almost all just don’t care.
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It was no longer her absence that wounded me, but my growing indifference to it. Forgetting, however calming, was also a reminder of infidelity to what I had at one time held so dear.
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I am in general a very pessimistic person with an optimistic, day to day take on things. The bare facts of life are utterly terrifying. And yet, one can laugh. Indeed, one has to laugh precisely because of the darkness: the nervous laughter of the trenches.
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Never too late to learn some embarrassingly basic, stupidly obvious things about oneself.
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Artistic accounts involve severe abbreviations of what reality will force upon us.
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You need a long hard day’s work to reveal the logic of the craving for very bad tv and alcohol.
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When I see someone like Richard Dawkins, I see my father. I grew up with that. I’m basically the child of Richard Dawkins.
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Differ though we might with Christianity’s view of what precisely our souls need, it is hard to discredit the provocative underlying thesis.
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The happiness that may emerge from taking a second look is central to Proust’s therapeutic conception. It reveals the extent to which our dissatisfactions may be the result of failing to look properly at our lives rather than the result of anything inherently deficient about them.
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Our minds are susceptible to the influence of external voices telling us what we require to be satisfied, voices that may drown out the faint sounds emitted by our souls and distract us from the careful, arduous task of accurately naming our priorities.
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You normally have to be bashed about a bit by life to see the point of daffodils, sunsets and uneventful nice days.
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The arrogance that says analysing the relationship between reasons and causes is more important than writing a philosophy of shyness or sadness or friendship drives me nuts. I can’t accept that.
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