The only people we can think of as normal are those we don’t yet know very well.
ALAIN DE BOTTONPeople who readily accept the need for a gym will resist that their personalities might need some work too.
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As adults, we try to develop the character traits that would have rescued our parents.
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What should worry us is not the number of people that oppose us, but how good their reasons are for doing so.
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We keep a special place in our hearts for people who refuse to be impressed by us.
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There are selections so acute that they come to define a place, with the result that we can no longer travel through that landscape without being reminded of what a great artist noticed there.
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The mind may be reluctant to think properly when thinking is all it is supposed to do; the task can be as paralysing as having to tell a joke or mimic an accent on demand.
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The activities of drawing, eating and drinking, all involve assimilations by the self of desirable elements from the world, a transfer of goodness from without to within.
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My writing always came out of a very personal place, out of an attempt to stay sane.
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One of the unexpectedly important things that art can do for us is to teach us how to suffer more successfully.
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Arguments are like eels: however logical, they may slip from the minds weak grasp unless fixed there by imagery and style.
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Without sex, we would be dangerously invulnerable. We might believe we were not ridiculous. We wouldn’t know rejection and humiliation so intimately.
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Bitterness: anger that forgot where it came from.
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…if the beginnings of love and amorous politics are equally rosy, then the ends may be equally bloody.
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Artistic accounts involve severe abbreviations of what reality will force upon us.
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Envy: a confused, tangled guide to one’s own ambitions.
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What is fascinating about marriage is why anyone wants to get married.
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