We should not feel embarrassed by our difficulties, only by our failure to grow anything beautiful from them.
ALAIN DE BOTTONPeople who readily accept the need for a gym will resist that their personalities might need some work too.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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It is striking how much more seriously we are likely to be taken after we have been dead a few centuries.
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Envy: a confused, tangled guide to one’s own ambitions.
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Never too late to learn some embarrassingly basic, stupidly obvious things about oneself.
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It is perhaps sad books that best console us when we are sad.
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We need a refuge to shore up our states of mind, because so much of the world is opposed to our allegiances. We need our rooms to align us to desirable versions of ourselves and to keep alive the important, evanescent sides of us.
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Curiosity might be pictured as being made up of chains of small questions extending outwards, sometimes over huge distances, from a central hub composed of a few blunt, large questions.
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These inventors were elevating the formulation of entrepreneurial ideas to the status of a visionary activity. Though forced to justify their efforts in the pragmatic language of venture capital, they were at heart utopian thinkers intent on transforming the world.
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The attentions of others matter to us because we are afflicted by a congenital uncertainty as to our own value, as a result of which affliction we tend to allow others’ appraisals to play a determining role in how we see ourselves. Our sense of identity is held captive by the judgements of those we live among.
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The mind does most of its best thinking when we aren’t there. The answers are there in the morning.
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Intuition is unconscious accumulated experience informing judgement in real time.
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He did not mean to depress us, rather to free us from expectations which inspire bitterness. It is consoling, when love has let us down, to hear that happiness was never part of the plan.
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Maturity: knowing where you’re crazy, trying to warn others of the fact and striving to keep yourself under control.
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We study biology, physics, movements of glaciers… Where are the classes on envy, feeling wronged, despair, bitterness.
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If one felt successful, there’d be so little incentive to be successful.
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The moment we cry in a film is not when things are sad but when they turn out to be more beautiful than we expected them to be.
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