We are not always humiliated by failing; we are humiliated only if we first invest our pride and sense of worth in a given achievement and then do not reach it.
ALAIN DE BOTTONPeople who readily accept the need for a gym will resist that their personalities might need some work too.
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It is in dialogue with pain that many beautiful things acquire their value. Acquaintance with grief turns out to be one of the more unusual prerequisites of architectural appreciation. We might, quite aside from all other requirements, need to be a little sad before buildings can properly touch us.
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There is always the option of being emotionally lazy, that is, of quoting.
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A ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
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The difference between hope and despair is a different way of telling stories from the same facts.
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We are presented with an unpleasant choice between either committing to peculiar concepts about immaterial deities or letting go entirely of a host of consoling, subtle or just charming rituals for which we struggle to find equivalents in secular society.
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We each appear to hold within ourselves a range of divergent views as to our native qualities.. And amid such uncertainty, we typically turn to the wider world to settle the question of our significance.. we seem beholden to affections of others to endure ourselves.
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Art holds out the promise of inner wholeness.
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Once I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
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Mental health: having enough safe places in your mind for your thoughts to settle.
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Most of our childhood is stored not in photos, but in certain biscuits, lights of day, smells, textures of carpet.
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In the works of Lucretius, we find two reasons why we shouldn’t worry about death. If you have had a successful life, Lucretius tell us, there’s no reason to mind its end. And, if you haven’t had a good time, “Why do you seek to add more years, which would also pass but ill?”
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It is by finding out what something is not that one comes closest to understanding what it is.
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All tours are filled with humiliation. My publisher once hired a private jet to fly me to a venue where 1,000 people were waiting. It almost bankrupted him.
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True love is a lack of desire to check one’s smartphone in another’s presence.
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As adults, we try to develop the character traits that would have rescued our parents.
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