Every realistic picture represents a choice as to which features of reality should be given prominence; no painting ever captures the whole.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThere is no such thing as work-life balance. Everything worth fighting for unbalances your life.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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In the oasis complex, the thirsty man images he sees water, palm trees, and shade not because he has evidence for the belief, but because he has a need for it. Desperate needs bring about a hallucination of their solution: thirst hallucinates water.
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He did not mean to depress us, rather to free us from expectations which inspire bitterness. It is consoling, when love has let us down, to hear that happiness was never part of the plan.
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People only get really interesting when they start to rattle the bars of their cages.
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Travel agents would be wiser to ask us what we hope to change about our lives rather than simply where we wish to go.
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Memory is… similar to anticipation: an instrument of simplification and selection.
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People who readily accept the need for a gym will resist that their personalities might need some work too.
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It is striking how much more seriously we are likely to be taken after we have been dead a few centuries.
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Only by declaring a book completely finished can one start to see how much remains to be done on it.
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Arguments are like eels: however logical, they may slip from the minds weak grasp unless fixed there by imagery and style.
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It wasn’t only fanatics and drunkards who began conversations with strangers in public.
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There is a longing for a return to a time without the need for choices, free of the regret at the inevitable loss that all choice (however wonderful) has entailed.
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One rarely falls in love without being as much attracted to what is interestingly wrong with someone as what is objectively healthy.
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As victims of hurt, we frequently don’t bring up what ails us, because so many wounds look absurd in the light of day.
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We are like an exquisite high-speed aircraft which for lack of a tiny part is left stranded beside the runway, rendered slower than a tractor or bicycle.
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It looks like it’s wasting time, but literature is actually the ultimate time-saver – because it gives us access to a range of emotions and events that it would take you years, decades, millennia to try to experience directly.
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