An argument in a couple: 2 people attempting to introduce each other to important truths – by panicked shouting.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThere is no such thing as work-life balance. Everything worth fighting for unbalances your life.
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So many complaints boil down to the belly ache of the fragile, mortal, ignored ego in a vast and indifferent universe.
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…if the beginnings of love and amorous politics are equally rosy, then the ends may be equally bloody.
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Must being in love always mean being in pain?
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We need objects to remind us of the commitments we’ve made. That carpet from Morocco reminds us of the impulsive, freedom-loving side of ourselves we’re in danger of losing touch with. Beautiful furniture gives us something to live up to. All designed objects are propaganda for a way of life.
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As we write, so we build: to keep a record of what matters to us.
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It looks like it’s wasting time, but literature is actually the ultimate time-saver – because it gives us access to a range of emotions and events that it would take you years, decades, millennia to try to experience directly.
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One of the best protections against disappointment is to have a lot going on.
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Memory is… similar to anticipation: an instrument of simplification and selection.
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Our greatest furies spring from events which violate our sense of the ground of our existence.
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One of the better guarantors of ending up in a good relationship: an advanced capacity to be alone.
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It is not just nature that defies us. Human life is as overwhelming… If we spend time in it [the vast spaces of nature], they may help us to accept more graciously the great, unfathomable events that molest our lives and will inevitably return us to dust.
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Everyone returns us to a different sense of ourselves, for we become a little of who they think we are.
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Bitterness: anger that forgot where it came from.
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Getting to the top has an unfortunate tendency to persuade people that the system is OK after all.
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Journeys are the midwives of thought. Few places are more conducive to internal conversations than moving planes, ships or trains.
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