A danger of travel is that we see things at the wrong time, before we have had a chance to build up the necessary receptivity and when new information is therefore as useless and fugitive as necklace beads without a connecting chain.
ALAIN DE BOTTONOne kind of good book should leave you asking: how did the author know that about me?
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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The mind does most of its best thinking when we aren’t there. The answers are there in the morning.
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There is always the option of being emotionally lazy, that is, of quoting.
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Our greatest furies spring from events which violate our sense of the ground of our existence.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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Travel agents would be wiser to ask us what we hope to change about our lives rather than simply where we wish to go.
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Curiosity might be pictured as being made up of chains of small questions extending outwards, sometimes over huge distances, from a central hub composed of a few blunt, large questions.
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In the gap between who we wish one day to be and who we are at present, must come pain, anxiety, envy and humiliation.
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It is perhaps when our lives are at their most problematic that we are likely to be most receptive to beautiful things.
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I learnt to stop fantasising about the perfect job or the perfect relationship because that can actually be an excuse for not living.
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There is a longing for a return to a time without the need for choices, free of the regret at the inevitable loss that all choice (however wonderful) has entailed.
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Work is most fulfilling when you’re at the comfortable, exciting edge of not quite knowing what you are doing.
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Out of the millions of people we live among, most of whom we habitually ignore and are ignored by in turn, there are always a few that hold hostage our capacity for happiness, whom we could recognize by their smell alone and whom we would rather die than be without.
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People only get really interesting when they start to rattle the bars of their cages.
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After 40 (old age for most of man’s history), one should strive to be more or less packed and ready to go were the end call to come.
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It is striking how much more seriously we are likely to be taken after we have been dead a few centuries.
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