Every realistic picture represents a choice as to which features of reality should be given prominence; no painting ever captures the whole.
ALAIN DE BOTTONOne kind of good book should leave you asking: how did the author know that about me?
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Cynics are – beneath it all – only idealists with awkwardly high standards.
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Dreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
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You need a long hard day’s work to reveal the logic of the craving for very bad tv and alcohol.
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Our homes do not have to offer us permanent occupancy or store our clothes to merit the name. To speak of home in relation to a building is simply to recognise its harmony with our own prized internal song. Home can be an airport or a library, a garden or a motorway diner.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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The need for love hallucinates a prince or princess. The oasis complex is never a complete delusion: the man in the desert does see something on the horizon. It is just that the palms have withered, the well is dry, and the place is infected with locusts.
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The greatest works of art speak to us without knowing us.
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Everyone returns us to a different sense of ourselves, for we become a little of who they think we are.
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When you look at the Moon, you think, ‘I’m really small. What are my problems?’ It sets things into perspective. We should all look at the Moon a bit more often.
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It is in dialogue with pain that many beautiful things acquire their value. Acquaintance with grief turns out to be one of the more unusual prerequisites of architectural appreciation. We might, quite aside from all other requirements, need to be a little sad before buildings can properly touch us.
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So many complaints boil down to the belly ache of the fragile, mortal, ignored ego in a vast and indifferent universe.
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How generous was it to offer gifts to people one knew would never accept them?
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The challenge for a human now is to be more interesting to another than his or her smartphone.
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Curiosity might be pictured as being made up of chains of small questions extending outwards, sometimes over huge distances, from a central hub composed of a few blunt, large questions.
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to design means forcing ourselves to unlearn what we believe we already know, patiently to take apart the mechanisms behind our reflexes and to acknowledge the mystery and stupefying complexity of everyday gestures like switching off a light of turning on a tap
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