Not everyone is worth listening to.
ALAIN DE BOTTONOne kind of good book should leave you asking: how did the author know that about me?
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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At the heart of every frustration lies a basic structure: the collision of a wish with an unyielding reality.
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Most of what makes a book ‘good’ is that we are reading it at the right moment for us.
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A ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
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Our minds are susceptible to the influence of external voices telling us what we require to be satisfied, voices that may drown out the faint sounds emitted by our souls and distract us from the careful, arduous task of accurately naming our priorities.
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Every adult life could be said to be defined by two great love stories: the story of our quest for sexual love and the story of our quest for love from the world.
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Most good thinking has its origin in fear.
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What kills us isn’t one big thing, but thousands of tiny obligations we can’t turn down for fear of disappointing others.
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When you look at the Moon, you think, ‘I’m really small. What are my problems?’ It sets things into perspective. We should all look at the Moon a bit more often.
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The good parent: someone who doesn’t mind, for a time, being hated by their children.
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The flawless object throws into perspective the mediocrity that surrounds it. We are reminded of the way we would wish things always to be and of how incomplete our lives remain.
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Every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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Good sex isn’t just fun, it keeps us sane and happy. Having sex with someone makes us feel wanted, alive and potent.
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We are not always humiliated by failing; we are humiliated only if we first invest our pride and sense of worth in a given achievement and then do not reach it.
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We are like an exquisite high-speed aircraft which for lack of a tiny part is left stranded beside the runway, rendered slower than a tractor or bicycle.
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