For paranoia about ‘what other people think’ : remember that only some hate, a very few love – and almost all just don’t care.
ALAIN DE BOTTONOne kind of good book should leave you asking: how did the author know that about me?
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A successful work will draw out the features capable of exciting a sense of beauty and interest in the spectator.
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Intimacy is the capacity to be rather weird with someone – and finding that that’s ok with them.
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We keep a special place in our hearts for people who refuse to be impressed by us.
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It is perhaps sad books that best console us when we are sad.
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What should worry us is not the number of people that oppose us, but how good their reasons are for doing so.
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A good half of the art of living is resilience.
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I think people want to get married to end their emotional uncertainty. In a way, they want to end powerful feelings, or certainly the negative ones.
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There is always the option of being emotionally lazy, that is, of quoting.
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When Proust urges us to evaluate the world properly, he repeatedly reminds us of the value of modest scenes.
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As victims of hurt, we frequently don’t bring up what ails us, because so many wounds look absurd in the light of day.
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True respectability stems not from the will of the majority but from proper reasoning.
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We don’t really learn anything properly until there is a problem, until we are in pain, until something fails to go as we had hoped … We suffer, therefore we think.
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Unhappiness can stem from having only one perspective to play with.
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The inability to live in the present lies in the fear of leaving the sheltered position of anticipation or memory, and so of admitting that this is the only life that one is ever likely (heavenly intervention aside) to live.
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to design means forcing ourselves to unlearn what we believe we already know, patiently to take apart the mechanisms behind our reflexes and to acknowledge the mystery and stupefying complexity of everyday gestures like switching off a light of turning on a tap
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